i'm a 17 yr old girl...i had sex with my boyfriend yesterday....it was rough. i guess he came on too strong on me and i'm bleeding since then. it was just a minor bleeding yesterday...but now it's bleeding hard and it hurts too. i know i need a doctor but there's no way i can get to one without my mom knowing. she's already asked me a hundred times why i'm feeling wan today. i feel embarassed to tell her the whole thing. how do i get a hold on the situation? it's starting to hurt a lot...please tell me.....
2007-06-26 02:58:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I know how it feels not to want your mom to know. there are many options for you... you can go to a clinic but sometimes especially Planned parenthood they are hard to catch open and willing to see you today. you can lie and say your menstrual is weird this time around and painful and u think u should see a doctor asap. docs are not authorized to tell ur parents anything.
your last and best option is to speak to ur mom. With Sex comes lots of worries and ur mom can help u through them. the worst thing in a females life is to be sexually active, fearing that her insides are messed up, or that ur pregnant, or contracting an std and not know where to turn. Good luck!!!!!!! You need a professional to see you.
2007-06-26 03:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by RockyRose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's not what you want to hear but the embarassment of telling your mom will be better than having something seriously wrong with you. I've never had this happen before but if you are bleeding and hurting bad you need a doctor.
2007-06-26 03:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by ANGEL3Y35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you tell your mom so that you can go get checked and make sure everythign is okay. That is most important- ur health! Then maybe you and your m om can talk about birth controls.
If you really dont want to tell your mom, go to Planned Parenthood, they are not allowed to talk to parents but you will have to pay for the appt on your own, otherwise your parents will find out through the insurance.
2007-06-26 03:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by melly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should tell your mother or consult a physician, but meanwhile, you should also ditch the boyfriend. There is no excuse for rough sex, and I would imagine that it was painful for you the entire time, not just afterwards. He's a woman-hater and you'd be better off without him.
2007-06-26 09:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by SUSIEQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to tell her about the sex part, but do tell the doctor. Just say your period is excessive and you feel like need to see a doctor. At your age, it is not required that your mother be in the room with you.
2007-06-26 03:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I jz want to ask if It was your first tym if it was then you dont have to worry bcoz its perfectly normal.,.,trust me,.If it wasnt your first tym then you might consider seeing a doctor.,. Your bf might have ripped something inside of you,., Its probably not something to worry about but its better to be safe than sorry and if you want the pain to stop then tel your mum the truth and go see the doctor.,.,your parents do have the right to know the truth dont they,.,.,.
Good Luck
2007-06-26 03:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by FlipiNo and Proud 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You really need to see a doctor. You are 17, can you drive? Would it be possible for you to drive yourself to your doctor/clinic? If not, you really need to talk to your mom. i'm sure she'd understant.
2007-06-26 03:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋