i really like this guy. whenever we meet up in town on a nite out i always go and stay back at his place in his bed. nothing happens, despite him wanting "things" to happen.
this has happened a few times.
i really like this guy but we are not dating. its all really casual and we only meet up if we happen to be out in town on the same nite which can be months!
am i giving out the wrong signals to this guy???
if he was just after sex wouldnt he have given up on me be now????
this has gone on for over a year-but it can be months before we meet up.
why hasnt he asked me out???he says he likes me????
2007-06-25 21:44:51 · 10 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im sure your not giving the wrong signals but why would you go in his bed??? thats like saying "im free" or something. How well do you know this guy?? and do you have his number?? If I were you and the next time you see him..get his number, ask him to lunch or dinner and get to know him more...and schedule dates!
2007-06-25 21:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kratz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think he is gay? Or, maybe he really does just class you as a friend? There is not a lot of men who would sleep in the same bed with a girl and not 'do anything' with her and vice versa. He may not see you as a sleeping partner? Just a friend. If you are confused the next time you see each other ask him. That way you will know where you stand ,but be careful you don't scare him off if you want to keep him as a friend. Be casual just in case. He maybe really comfy with your relationship the way it is. Good luck! xx
2007-06-25 21:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 possibilities here: either he's taking you for a ride or he is shy and doesn't know how you feel. Next time you two 'meet up' ask him about how he feels about you. It could be he didn't ask you out because he is unsure about your feelings but on the other hand he could just be using you for sex. Either way you need to talk to him and find out where you stand in this 'relationship.'
2007-06-26 01:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by firegirl999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a few reasons, first he is shy and/or he doesnt want to ruin what you guys have going (friendship wise), Second he could be involved with someone (gf or someone he wants to make one).
And the third and least likely thing is he is gay and he is friendly with you, Which wouldnt make sense cause he wants to sex you from what you are telling us
2007-06-25 21:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Errrm, sharing the same bed - you might be beyond the 'asking out on a date first' phase lol.
So you dont know this guy - and after a night out you went back to his place and slept in his bed? - Watch out hunni - there are some weirdos out in this world - how didya know he wasnt an axe-murderer.
I really dont know what to make of this - it just seems a strange situation to me, sry.
2007-06-25 21:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by xxangel_allyssaxx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
may be you should ask him out .he may be gay is he in the bed with you when you stop over .he may just be a nice chap .go ask him what he wants then take it from there
2007-06-25 21:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by mikail brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does sound like he respects you and is a little afraid of making a move, try hugging him and snuggling up, you will know by the reaction how he feels
2007-06-25 21:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its 2007. Why don't you ask him out?
2007-06-25 21:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by livinfortheweekend 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe he respects you so much.
2007-06-25 21:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
probably he is a gay..
2007-06-25 21:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by shim696 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋