is it natural for a bf to b possesive towards his gf or is jus individual nature?I hv heard of those who loves their gf very much r possesive n my bf is very possesive towards me..so is it so..N yeah HE loves me very much !but still why does he always get angry whn i talk to any boys??
Yesterday whn i was telling him abt my batchmate who is a boy , he got very angry on me.In the beginning his mood was quite romantic n suddenly got angry..why is he like tht??!!but i love him very much same as him!HELP!
2007-06-25 19:40:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh no he dient!
2007-06-25 19:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Donkey Rhubarb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is jealousy...and does not want to loose you to some other guy. What he does not realize is that the more possessive he is, the more he pushes you away. You must be very careful with guys who are very possessive, they tend to be quite abusive. It is a control thing. by him getting angry at you, you in turn will do anything so that he will not go off on you the way he did...over time you learn what sets him off.....and so you avoid all situations like this....he will eventually get angry when you see your family, and then you will stop seeing them because he gets so angry and he don't want you to see them. If I were in your situation, I would not be with him, because it is going to get worse.
2007-06-26 02:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry! my bf was rather possesive to - eg whenever i talked to any other boys, he put his arm around me, or, if he was out of arms-distance, he stops talking to me for a while. im pretty sure that this is just normal jealousy. after all, how would you feel if he spent a lot of time around a certain girl? i guess you could explain to him that you chose him, not the the guy you are talking to, and tell him that you love him, and talking to other guys wont change that. it worked for me!
2007-06-26 02:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both must tune your minds.Possessiveness can be natural in man but it must not overcome to logic sense.Don't let feeling control you let the brain do so.
2007-06-26 02:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by ahws437 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy will destroy the relationship eventually, if the problem is not put to a halt!!
2007-06-26 02:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who are possessive and suffering from mass insecurity. The more insecure he feels, the more possessive he will become.
2007-06-26 02:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im kinda like that with my gf but not too angry just a little mad.idk its just like the feeling of his girl with another boy idk its hard to explain.dont tlak about any other boys with him just talk about him cause why would he want to hear stuff about other boys ?
2007-06-26 02:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋