Why is it that girls with big boobs seem to always think that girls with small boobs wish they had big boobs?

Question

It's so annoying, I'm an A-cup and I love it. But girls, and only the ones with boobs, always say stuff about them. Like it's a bad thing. And if they aren't they'll be like "don't worry they'll grow" It's like I don't care if they grow or not I hope they don't I love them. Anyone else feel the same way? If I say something like "No I like my boobs" They think I'm just saying that but not really mean it

I know it's not that great people, but I don't not want big boobs for the back problems, I want small boobs because it suits me better

Answer 1

Well, I have talked to many girls and it seems like the majority of them doesn´t care about other women´s boobs, sometimes they don´t even notice that the girl in front of them is flat chested. Maybe two or three of all the big breasted chicks you've seen were that way and now you're assuming that all busty girls are like that when they are not. I'm an A cup (the same size as you) and have heard such remarks just of three girls, two of whom I dont remember and the last one was this girl with enormous breasts, no ***, no hips and an average face. I was so much goodlooking than she was.

Answer 2

Hahaha. I know. It's because that's basically all they think they have going for them. They probably have little to no personality or sense of humor, and are likely very self absorbed if they think everyone envies their ****. I have small boobs and I love them. I look skinnier and younger, and every guy I've been with says they're perfect. "More than a handful just gets in the way", as they say. Hehe. My best friend has like double G's and has to special order bras and has back problems, BUT, she has "big boobs" which of course EVERY guy likes (extreme sarcasm). She says she wishes she had smaller boobs. So hey, let them have their big boobs, in a few years they'll be saggy and gross, and us with the more petite ones will still be nice and perky. Sweet.

Answer 3

Okay, here's what I think. (I'm a 36DDD by the way, and yes, that's three D's)

When I tell my friends that kind of stuff I'm teasing them, because I get comments all the time like "Don't knock yourself out going downstairs!" "Geez, how big ARE your boobs?"

We're just teasing, but then, we're friends. I wouldn't say that to anyone who wasn't a good friend of mine.

I'm sure there are girls out there, however, who feel the need to comment on the breasts of mere acquaintances. Why? They're jealous.

Okay, I love my big boobs (and so do lots of people), but honest to God they're a pain in the ***.

They hurt - If I don't wear a bra my back kills by the end of the day.

Clothes don't fit properly - You know all those cute tops that have a seam under the chest? Yeah, not so attractive when it's on TOP of your boobs.

We can't really wear tank tops - Bra straps are SO ugly when they show through, and I don't really have a choice if I'm wearing a tank top.

Everyone thinks we're fat - If I wear a t-shirt I look about twenty pounds over weight because my boobs are way out there.

So, they're trying to make themselves feel better. But honestly, who cares? If you're okay with your boobs then good for you!

Answer 4

If you really prefer a huge cup just so that guys will fawn over you then it's up to you. Don't worry im not completely against the whole implants thing, maybe you should weigh the pros and cons of it in your head. Sure, having great tata's would make guys fawn over you but it will be hard to find a serious mate if all he ever does is stare at your chest then at your face. Plus, I hear they get pretty heavy and they sort of ruin the clothes that you wear because they have their "limits". I'm an A cup and I'm totally happy! the good thing about it is that I know that guys are really listening to me or not. It makes running for me easier because I feel light. Learn to be happy okay? if you dont accept how you look then guys won't! Plus, if you dont have such a great rack then dont flaunt it. Camouflage that idea and show off you other appeals like...um...butts i guess or your midriff, whatever it's all up to you! :)

Answer 5

Having big boobs, and men going ga-ga over them, is a misconception that society has had foisted upon it by advertising companies. Many men prefer smaller boobs. Someone once said to me, "anything more than a mouthful is just wasted." LOL The fact is, women's breasts of any size are beautiful, and men love them all. You SHOULD like your boobs, and be proud of them! And don't let anyone tell you differently.

Answer 6

I have small boobs too. My sister has huge boobs. All I hear from her is, your soo lucky! I use to want big boobs like, 3 years ago. Now I so don't even care. like my friend says, I have enough to fill a bra. and im happy with em. thats all that matters. I know that doesn't answer your question, but I just felt like throwing that in there.

Answer 7

I'm a guy, so I can't answer from experience, but I know my wife sometimes wishes hers were smaller, and she's a small c-cup. I know that large breasts can cause back problems later in life, and as for why they think all women want them, I think it's because they know thats the only way they can get a guy to come near them.

Answer 8

Because girls with big boobs wish they had smaller boobs. Now that I am older I don't mind my c-cups as much, but when I was in high school I always wished I had my sister's breasts (she was much smaller).

In the end it all comes down to be comfortable with your own body and not caring about what others think. Good for you that you have found that in yourself.

Answer 9

Actually not all big boobed girls think that. I'm a DD and always wished I was a B cup.

Answer 10

I think a lot of people wish for what they didn't have.

I've known girls who hated being small, then hit a growth spurt and then griped about their new, larger cup size.

I know one guy (age 16) who hated the gap in his front teeth--first thing he would ask people was how stupid did the tooth gap make him look? He got his teeth knocked out when he fell off a horse and got a dental plate with straight teeth. Now all he can talk about is how much he misses the gap in his teeth.

I think it's a common human condition: to wish for what we don't have.

I think it is wonderful that you are pleased and satisfied with yourself! Life is a lot less painful that way!!