how to be calm when your dear ones are giving you pain?

Question

there is this churning inside of you which makes you miserable and it is more because you love these people.where to go and whom to turn to?

Answer 1

You go straight to the person and let them know what they have done to hurt you. It is always important to tell a person that they have done something to you. You all will either talk it out like adults or they will not admit what they have done. But at least the person knows that they have hurt you. If you can't work it out then stop dealing with the person until you all can come to some sort of understanding.

Answer 2

I agree with the person who said to turn to God.
Yeah,
It happens,
but when you turn to God,
You feel way better about the situation,
and won't really worry about it
It all works out with Him.
You start a relationship with God,
and then you ask him what you want,
and you'll get it.
You'll get your dear ones back.

Answer 3

I think venting is a good plan just let it all out. I like to smash things when I'm venting, I have a room in my house just for smashing things. I buy boxes of cheap junk furniture etc. Then I set it up so it looks like a decorated room. I return later with my bat and go to work its great smashing things.

Answer 4

Sorry, double negative here, dear ones? pain? not mixing in my head. 1st get a hold on your own emotions, everything else seems to fall in place after that! been there. good luck!

Answer 5

close the door stand in front of the mirror and talk to yourself what ever fustration you have take it out you will feel good .

Answer 6

turn to god. He can help u through all things, even the worse

Answer 7

Turn to God. God is good, always.