2007-06-25 18:07:47 · 11 answers · asked by Texas Cowboy 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
For me ... its necessary ... Its the way I was raised. My parents have been together for 40 years. Yes there have been hard times between them, but they worked thru them. I only wish my first marriage didn't end, but he was dedicated to porn and his friends, NOT me or his family!
My new husband, loves me, I love him, he's my best friend, yes I know you can have a best friend with out being married ... Besides if he wants to divorce ... he'll have to chew off his arm! LOL JUST KIDDING!
2007-06-25 18:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by PSYCHO DAISY MAE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for this era why get married just live together whats so great about marriage you can committ to each other even if not married to me marriage is not what its used to me the old fashined marriage was true and real whats real today? there is no certainity in anthing anymore ive became to realize this but has taken life experciences to know if it works for some people fine but i think were expected by certain upbringings and beliefs of our families that this is the way to do it i do not agree at all just my believe , one has to make their own mind up and what i dont understand if someone is unhappy why do they stick around ?
2007-06-26 08:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by bitburger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not necessary but everyone should try marriage at least once. Some couples actually stay in love for many many years. Marriage is good with kids but not necessary.
At my old age, I want a friend and a lover and separate residences.
2007-06-26 01:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not nessesary, or old fashioned for that matter. You don't have to get married in life, me and mine don't believe in marriage because we're not religious.
The old fashioned part is believing that if you get married you'll be happy, and if you don't you'll never be happy. Some people are happy married, but I'm completely satisfied living how I am. It's also a problem when people think they have to get married, marry someone totally wrong for them, and don't believe in divorce, therefor leading a miserable life.
Some say it's sin, but marriage just isn't for me. I think it depends who you are.
KIWI-- we're not married, but we never cheat and have just as strong a bond as married couples, but without that "trapped" feeling. It doesn't matter that we never said vows, I guarantee that our relationship is stronger than most married couples'. I'm sorry for people that feel they "have" to say vows or their relationships mean nothing. That's so shallow, and people that "have" to have those vows must not trust themselves or their partners.
2007-06-26 01:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by mathaowny 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course it's not necessary. People shouldn't feel compulsed/pressured to get married, especially by their family (the most common 'culprit').
2007-06-26 01:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is old fashioned but i don't know cause im not married
2007-06-26 09:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither I suppose, but it is still the ultimate committment you can make to the person you love.
2007-06-26 01:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by Neica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting married is *stupid* for a plethora of reasons. I am totally against it. Anytime one legally binds themselves to another human being, you're asking for trouble. People lie, they cheat, they dirty-deal...Lust can dig a hole that can bury you eventually. I don't recommend it whatsoever.
2007-06-26 01:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
necessery bcuz it holds love together n also it closes up special bonds between partners
2007-06-26 01:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
necessary. It's needing to keep those vows that makes living together possible when times are tough.
2007-06-26 01:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋