Malaysian vs Foreigner?

Question

which 1 u choose... almost 1 year now with foreigner...maybe lost interest with malaysian guy....

what do u think bout malaysian guys today.... maybe some better quality compare to white guy....

i have malay,chinese and indian bf before.....

ya,its the matter of heart...tell me something good bout them which i didn't see...

nothing to do with skin color....
i think u right, its me....maybe they don't give me enough freedom..as much as they want it for them self...they cant cook,cant dance, don't know how to open the door, pull out the chair, say sorry when they don't mean it....maybe i mingle with Mr wrong all this time....or maybe im too demanding....maybe im not as normal as other malaysian girls....maybe

Bo_$$,size?........hahahhahahha

thanks guys...i think i prefer being single...:)

Answer 1

if size does matter - go for white guy
if hardness/stiffness does matter - go for oriental asian guy
if both do matters - go for african guy
good luck

your call ma'am :-)

Answer 2

Not able to chose cos it is all fated.

What makes you think whites are better? Just becos of their skin colour? They are human too, and they have bad habits too.

You mentioned that you had malay, chinese and indian BFs before. You did not manage to link into their culture?

And what makes you think that the whites have got better quality? From my personal experience (of someone who needs to travel around the world for work).. .. If the white man you found in your country makes you think he is worthwhile, think again. If he is really that capable, don't you think he should stay back in his country? And ask youself, why is he working in Malaysia whereby salary is not that great? Let me give you the answer --> The posibility is that he cannot make it out in his country and that is why he has to leave.

Ya, maybe you talk about them listening to you when you talk, or they are more romantic, etc.. .. Asian guys are Asian guys after all. They rather spend their time on TVs, soccer matches, etc. Asian guys have been brought up this way and if you happen to have a BF who says he will change becos he loves you, you better run away too. Leapord never changes it's spots. And sounds to me you would chose a white cos you are just curious.

Also, there is a saying (which I am not able to make out the full sentence) --> you choose a man but the man has got the right to decide if he wants you too. It takes 2 hands to clap.

Sorry Asian guys!!

Answer 3

Not sure what kind of quality you are looking for in a man but being an Asian our culture is quite different from the Americans for example.Personally I'll feel more comfortable with an Asian (although not same race) as the differences may not be as big.

But then again this is all matters of the heart..If you are in love with someone it will not matter what race or religion that person is.

Answer 4

I personally prefer asian, who i think will understand our culture more. U have to know what kind of person u are looking for not just simply looking for representative of a race because 1 man couldnt stand for their whole race, well unless u are saying that u have tried the whole village then maybe u a right, they may not be the right person or right size for u. Good luck in your search then.

Answer 5

If I were you, I'd go for foreigner, especially the Americans, Europeans and the rich middle east countries' guys.

There is nothing much here in Malaysia, the good guys are already taken up.

Answer 6

there's a lot of pro's & con's..

malaysian guys is more matured nowdays..
especially the nearly 30's one with good jobs..
those young ones only aim sometimes for one thing by hirarki..
1. fun
2. serious relationship..

in the other hand.. foreigners tend to be nice & great because that's how they were train or exposed to treat women.. but of course while dating.. when u get into serious relationship all what i said will be gone..

anyway.. its up to you to decide.. its not fair to judge every person/ race/foreigner because every person has diff. attitude & background.//

well good luck matilda..

Answer 7

Fortunately i havent met any lousy guys. Regardless of skin colour, all of them treated me so darn good. But i want to spend my old age with a local guy (my husband) which i fell in love with. Local guys are simply irresistably charming. So it all depends on you. U will get what you wish for in the end u know...

Answer 8

It works both ways, you choose them and they choose you, or not! I don't believe one nationality's males are more superior than others. In the end, it's what you want out of the relationship, how well you click with one another, your willingness to compromise and work at it. Since you've had multi racial bfs, you'd be a better judge than me! Good luck!

Answer 9

Not all foreigners are gentlemen and not all locals are rude. It's depends on the education from their family since they're young. If the family members thought them, surely they'll know.

No matter what, locals or foreigners, I prefer gentlemen.

Answer 10

You could be with anyone you choose. It all depends on what u are looking for in relationship. Guy are the same everywhere.... some guys are good and some are bad. Its your choice.

Answer 11

maybe you meet all of your Malaysian boyfriend in the Pub that is why