why iz my life bad?

Question

i can't get a guy.
but dad and mom r divorced.
i've got 3 younger brothers.
my mom says i'm mean.
this guy i like likes some other gurl.
my last boyfriend cheated on me with my bestfriend.


i need help pleaz.
and i really don't care wat u say. :-( )-:

Answer 1

It's your attitude. I read your answer to fivebucksdown ( I don't f_ing care). You have a poor attitude.
Your attitude, whether it's good or bad, shows in your face and in the way you talk to people. No one wants to be around someone who answers the way you answered fivebucks.
You were probably a downer around your boyfriend and your best friend was probably fun and happy to be around; same with the guy who likes someone else. You probably brought their moods down when they were around you.
I don't know if you're clinically depressed or depressed from your environment; but either way, some serious changes need to be made-starting with your attitude when you approach people.
I'm sorry you're going through this, everybody goes through it a time or two in their lives. How you decide to change it is UP TO YOU. Find hobbies that make you happy, try volunteer work, try something you've never done before ( a great cure to beat the boredom of life). If you sit around and mope and speak rudely to people, then nothing is ever going to change.
How badly do want a good life? And by the way, you don't have a bad life, it's your prospective. You haven't lost one, or both, parents nor have you lost your brothers ( right now somebody's crying over the death of a parent or sibling wishing they could have them back). You can walk, talk and think for yourself. You're not developmentally disabled sitting in a wheel chair having nothing to do but drool all day and have someone wipe your butt (yes, there are people like that, I use to do volunteer work for them), you're not waking up in the middle of the night to bombs exploding near your home, you know where and when you're next meal is coming. I can go on and on. But I think you get the drift. Just stop and think about all the situations there are in the world and realize you're not one of them.
Quit your moping and be thankful for what you do have, that's the first start. The rest is up to you.

Answer 2

O.K.
1. you can't get a guy, but the last guy you had cheated, so take a break, and find someone worthy of you, be more picky than "just some guy"
2.mom and dad r divorced, was it better to have them together and miserable and fighting??
3. 3 younger brothers now will be older brothers and really be there for you when your much older and I am talking with children, you will love them so much then, you wont know what you ever did without them
4. mom says your mean, well you probably are, obviously your angry at your parents and your brothers and your hormones are running a muck, admit it and give your self some time away from the mix when it get to be too much for you. And she's going thought stuff too. She's not perfect.
5. there is always going to be some guy you like that likes someone else, trust me, there is some guy that is looking at you thinking the same thing about you, how you like someone else and not him.
6. wow, what a close call to get rid of a looser boyfriend and girlfriend in one stroke. I know your really hurt but she was a boyfriend stealing friend just waiting to happen, better now than latter, and him, well come on, he cheated that spells LOOSER
So try looking at the positives of what is going on, it's really hard but there is a flip side. And time is on your side, honest.

Answer 3

To tell u the Truth i dont think that your life is that bad, You are who you are and you should not change just to have a Guy, Your mom and dad getting a divorce is not your fault and dont try and blame it on your self my parents got a divorce to and i could not help but think that it was my fault but i know now that its not, I dont see anything wrong with Having 3 younger brothers trust me i have twin brothers and 3 older brothers, your mom telling you your mean is nothing to be mad about The guy that you likes likes some other girl is not that bad, He does not Deserve you anyways and you should never settle for less then your best with any person. I think that the boy that cheated on you with your best friend is just wrong, She was never your friend in the first place and he is not worth your tears
Just Have a little faith and things will get better and Dont forget that a little prayer wont hurt.

Answer 4

1. you DONT need to get a guy right now
2. my parents are divorced too, but one day, we get over it.
3. whats wrong with 3 younger brothers?
4. your mom is wrong
5. maybe thats just life. every one had been through that
6. let alone your last bf. he's an a s s hole and your best friend is no longer your best friend. you deserve better.

things that dont seem right, right now, will go right if you look at things positively. problems will fix it self and all you have to do is to see the good sides of your life. THERE IS, ok. think about it. even little things like "i got money to eat french fries."

looking at your problems now, isnt even as much as kids in ethiopia craving for food everyday and each die every 8 seconds.

Answer 5

Life is tough.. but chin up life always gets better. I think of this way, life is like a roller coaster. There are the ups and downs. But it would not be a roller coaster if it was just down, I bet right now you're going down but you'll come back up twice as much because of such a hard time. I don't know, just my 2 pts O_o

Answer 6

Stop feeling sorry for Yourself and, do something about it.
parents, divorce, boyfriends cheat, parents have other kids, after You are born. stop acting bad. any attention You get from this, will not be good and, nothing but Your parents, will get Your parents back together. best friends, don't cheat with Your boyfriend so, You've lost nothing there. start looking for a new boyfriend. one who is not interested in someone else.

Answer 7

Many people have it a lot worse then you hunnie, so please stop complaining.These are tiny problems! Just know someone out there has it worse than you. You cannot use this stuff as an excuse for your attitude. I bet those people who have it worse than you don't complain. I am being kind of tough on you, because I see someone suffering much worse than you right now. They are very hurt...

Answer 8

Suck it up princess!
I know this story,I lived it actually!
My advice to you is wake the hell up and do something with your life.
Someone screws you over,forget them they will get theres don't you worry.Stay in school,get your damn education and don't worry about stupid boys go after the "nerdy" ones those are the guys who will treat you better and they are also smart which means they will likely end up very well off.Change your life now before it gets worse ;)

Answer 9

Try spelling better. Your boyfriend probably saw you using Z's instead of S's, and got disgusted with you.
As for your parents divorcing, stop thinking you're so special. It happens a lot, okay?
And if you don't care what we say, why'd you ask?

Answer 10

B/c u only concentrate on the bad things.. and you don't try and get past them.. see the good in life and it might get a litte bit easier.... o and smile more often...like real smiles not those fake cheesey ones..