... or do you have an emotional level that all must reach before you'll even consider intimacy?
2007-06-25 14:49:24 · 16 answers · asked by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No. Everyone is at their own unique level or position of intimacy in my life. I do not limit myself, or them, by setting benchmarks. Each deals with me at their own comfort level - I don't push or demand. Love must be a "free flow" to work.
2007-06-25 15:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by X 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's based on what I feel with that individual. I don't have an emotional level that all must reach before I consider intimacy. It's on a "case by case" basis.
2007-06-25 16:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by The_Juniper_Tree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different levels, certainly. And sometimes I wonder if I've ever really experienced true love...
Maybe they have all just been infatuation... how would I know?
Actually, when I was 14, I fell desperately in love with this guy named Powell. He was definitely the playboy type, but he was soooo pretty...
I know for a fact that was love, not infatuation. Because, after he broke up with me, it took a full 6 months of crying, screaming, planning and praying for a better love life in the future, to get over him. And there have been some other relationships that lasted years, that I haven't been so emotional about the break-up.
2007-06-25 15:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by d_jayde_318 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each relationship is unique in it's own way.
Every relationship has it's own combination / level of passion, intimacy & raw emotion...
This is a good thing, because would you really want every relationship to be exactly the same?
2007-06-25 14:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I learned to wait longer for intimacy (sexual) as I got older. Emotional intimacy just develops on it's own in each relationship. I have learned that it is good to have emotional intimacy before the sexual intimacy.
2007-06-25 17:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lefty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have had different levels, and yes, there is a threshold which must be reached. Two lovers (one of whom was almost incidentally also a husband) have been that great passion that sweeps all before it, made me at least a little crazy, especially when he was hugging me (or even closer), and brought me to a spiritual awareness of the value of sexual union. The rest were varying degrees of friendly lovers, or friends with whom sex was pleasant, or something like that.
But then, I was married a total of four times, so you make make what you will of the first three husbands. (One of the two Great Passions was never a husband.)
2007-06-25 14:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by auntb93 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oooooh....good question! Different levels, but yes, there is a certain level that must be reached before I'll even consider kissing someone.
2007-06-25 14:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by JenJen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intimacy is a see saw of emotion to which determines if it stays legal or not.
2007-06-26 06:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Whatda think D??
2007-06-25 14:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by Answer Rat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh yes!different people bring out different emotions in me!
some i have a long relationship with and we are very close,even if we are not together.
others i just want to jump in and give them a huge kiss!!lol!
2007-06-26 04:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋