....... and you knew you didn't love them?
Did you respond with "I love you" anyway?
Did you say something kind?
Did you tell how you felt?
What did you do?
2007-06-25 14:40:34 · 25 answers · asked by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Oh, I have a horrible memory this. I was so hung-over (it was like 4pm) and this guy I was hanging out with called me up to see if I was going to a Christmas party at my friend's recording studio. I was so cranky and sick. God. He started getting really emotional and told me he loved me. I just told him, "No, you don't. It's not possible. You can't love me." He never spoke to me again. I felt pretty bad but love had nothing to do with our companionship. I thought it was very clear. In retrospect, I could have been softer. I'm actually a nice person, just not that day. I would never tell someone that I loved them if I didn't. Now, that's what I consider mean.
2007-06-26 09:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by -- 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That has got to be one of the most awkward moments a person can go through girl, I was only guilty of saying it back once, that just made it that much more horrible when the truth came out. I usually mumble something about leaving the coffee pot on and slink away like a thief in the night. I have let them down as easy as I could, but when someone tells you that it's not what they want to hear so it usually comes out bad anyway.
2007-06-26 08:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Bye Bye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one word I don't mess with. If I say it, I mean it.
When someone has said it to me and I don't feel the same, I just tell them how it is..."I just want to be friends, can we still have sex anyways?" I have yet to encounter a guy that hasn't been okay with that.
2007-06-25 23:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by The_Juniper_Tree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only had that situation a long time ago, and was not good at handling it. I think I stammered something like "thank you," but in one case at least I said, "Please don't." That took him aback, you may be sure. I liked the guy in certain ways, but I knew we could never have a serious relationship, because I'm kinky for brains, and he was big in other ways, but not in brains.
2007-06-25 21:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by auntb93 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I told her the doctor said the tests were positive and asked her if she still felt the same way.
2007-06-26 01:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gently explained that although I really adored her, I wasn't quite at that level yet. I encouraged her to continue with her honesty, as I truly was flattered. We grew to be incredibly close, but eventually realized it just wasn't enough somehow. Even though it was definitely the right decision it was one of the saddest realizations I (we) ever faced.
2007-06-25 21:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by musteatdonut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought My first girl friend was saying I love you, but actually she said I "d" LOVE YOU to get out of my life.
So I did. I have been emotionally damaged ever since.
2007-06-25 22:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ben R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am honest and define how I see where the relationship is, and appears to be going. I think anything else is cruel and ultimately unkind.
2007-06-25 22:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choked on my reply...
I usually dont have that problem unless I plan to lose a $100.
2007-06-26 13:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never say it back if I didn't mean it. Luckily I've never been in a situation when I couldn't honestly say it back.
2007-06-25 21:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋