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2007-06-25 13:20:12 · 16 answers · asked by Laela (Layla) 6 in Social Science Gender Studies

Edit: I want to say here and now that I do not believe in equality; just a bunch of crap if you ask me; totally impossible is how I see it and Happy Darky just proved my point.
Edit: Thank you Happy Darky.

2007-06-27 06:07:47 · update #1

Edit Madame M: You are absolutely right; we are all to blame; after all no one can fight with a wall; it takes two to tango.

2007-06-27 06:09:51 · update #2

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That's a loaded question. Just be nice and honest, a good man will reciprocate.

2007-06-25 13:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Ronnie Reign 2 · 4 0

Thats easy irrational emotional behaviour. A bit of it is okay womanly and should be tolerated by a man. But lets assume a woman treats her man badly denies sex etc, no matter how good nice and responsible the man behaves, or does the opposite treats him well although he is abusive, quite a lot of men will start to stop caring. So in context with your question if a woman stops to validitate good behaviour it could cause quite a lot of men to behave badly.

2007-06-26 16:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

One thing I would find unacceptable now is when behavior goes into extreme rudeness that becomes more than the rules of etiquette require.

I am talking about a level of rudeness that I think a lot of people would find surprising. It seems to me as if 'some' Women now feel they have a liscence to do this.

I don't think this would have happened in the past and I would also find this unacceptable in a Man.

On two occasions this has happened to me without due provocation on my part.

2007-06-27 06:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by malcolmg 6 · 0 0

good question cause to give thought to this is to notice it. any ways for me it used to be a lot of things. i would get upset at her when after she ask me to help out more around the house and i do and she comes in and goes off on me about how it was not done good enough. another one was when she would be mad at me she would not talk to me treat me with looks that would kill and then be all sweet to every one Else and id have to drag whats wrong out of her and it always turned into a fight. now those are just 2 things i really cant go into more but in the end i would yell back and i thought at the time that if i didn't then she would thank I'm a push over. well let me tell you i was wrong and thank god i now know this. even though it takes 2 one has to take responsibility for there actions or you will not make a needed change and just repeat your self. just a thought for my self and for me it has helped.

2007-06-25 20:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by just another man 3 · 1 1

This is, in my opinion, a ridiculous question. Men and women are supposed to be adults and with that comes some responsibility for your own actions.

Blaming your own bad behavior on someone else is very juvenile. I remember my sisters and me blaming each other for all sorts of bad actions on our parts. Looking back it is a wonder our parents didn't just go mad. Thankfully, I left that sort of immaturity behind in my childhood. If I behave poorly to anyone now, it is because I chose to do so and I have to accept what can occur because of that.

Men and women BOTH have to realize that they and they alone carry the burden for what they do.

2007-06-25 22:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by jade_calliope 3 · 4 1

men like excitement and novelty - women want closeness and intimacy. Be a little forward and adventurous in the bedroom - then men would hunt less outside the home! also, be less controlling, the queen isnt going to visit and see the tiny speck of dust on the top shelf. so relax.

2007-06-25 21:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hi, I don't think a man's conduct is or should be related to another person's conduct. I think woman may be an easy excuse, but it's actually quite defensive. Even if the woman did something he doesn't like, well, doesn't mean he should get mad and blame the woman.

2007-06-25 22:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

If men behave badly, it's because they are immature and selfish. If a man is mature, he will simply ignore a woman's bad behavior and move on -- like the guy above!

By the way, the same goes for women! They don't behave badly because a man does something -- they behave badly because they've got the wrong expectations (or the wrong man) and they aren't mature enough to move on to something else.

We are all responsible for our own actions! Nobody "makes" us do something -- we do stupid things and then try to blame it on somebody else.

2007-06-25 20:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by Madame M 7 · 6 2

My only complaint is women almost never ask men out, but sit there and hope the right one will take interest in them.
If you want equality, you should start by getting some guts

2007-06-25 20:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by happy darky 1 · 8 0

Well, some of them think they deserve all kinds of stuff simply for existing.

I wouldn't say I behave badly, though. I just ignore them and move on. No sense in stooping to their level.

Plenty of fish in the sea... ect..

2007-06-25 20:25:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 9 0

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