I'm 15 and i have a boyfriend and my grandma is like "Your way to young to date" and she is getting all bitchy about this. My mom doesn't care that i'm dateing but my grandma is yelling at her for that. I honestly don't know what to do. any advice?
2007-06-25 12:19:38 · 13 answers · asked by Im not T 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Its her generation,
Just ignore her.
2007-06-25 12:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are young, but if your mom is ok with you dating then go for it. Your grandma might be afraid that he isnt good for you or might want to pressure into doing more adult things. Just a little advice if you havent already wait to do anything with him. or anyone. you are very young to do that and if you are going to make sure you know all the facts. you might want to invite him over to the house so your grandma can meet him. hopefully if he is a nice kid, it will ease your grandmas doubts.
2007-06-25 19:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by ashlie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with having a boyfriend at 15. Usually your parents set the rules and guidelines, and since your mom says it's ok, then it's ok. This sounds like an issue between your mom and grandma.
2007-06-25 19:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by onitram5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 is not too young to date. Just talk to your grandma about it and try to explain to her that 15 these days is a lot different than 15 was in her day. It may or may not help but I hope so. Good luck.
2007-06-25 19:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by Judy W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please look at where your Grandma is coming from. When she was growing up, you didn't date as much as court. Dating was more of a thing you did once you were engaged. I'm sure she defines 'dating' differently than you do. How old you should be to date is dependent on how mature you are, how mature he is, how old you both are, and many other things. I'm also fifteen, and I personally have no interest in dating, but most of my friends do. Try to look at her side of things.
2007-06-25 19:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by hyperactress23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
welll you could always try going out on a date without your grandma knowing about it and your grandma isnt your mom she shouldnt be able to tell you what to do your mom carried you 9 months she is the boss and she is your mom and thats all that matters do what your mom says u can do
2007-06-25 19:23:34 · answer #6 · answered by mixedsensations 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was u i would try to find out why ur grandma doesnt want u to date besides the fact that ur only 15. my parents didnt want me to date when i was 15 but i did anyway..i stayed with me ex for four years...and on the last couple of months i found out that he was cheating all along..i hope nothing bad happens to u like it did to me...but try to find out her reasons behind it and plz make sure u trust ur bf it sucks getting ur heart broken. it is hard to rebuild it..
2007-06-25 19:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by finally happy =) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think teens should be dating they are 16, but it's your mom's choice not your grandmas.
2007-06-25 19:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how old is old enough is not a new question...i believe it somewhat matters how old is the person you are dating...where you are going on the dates,......someone near your age and you both respect each others person and ideas ....then I don't believe l5 is to young.....ask grandma when she started dating.
2007-06-25 19:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by vi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she lived a looong time ago! in her time they would strt dating @ age like, 20 i think!! lol...4get her..she had her chance to boss around her daughter, now its your moms turn..she said it ok so 4get granny!
2007-06-25 19:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by leo87 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋