i am totally in love but he has a wife
2007-06-25 09:15:07 · 38 answers · asked by Sonja D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You do the respectable thing and stay away from him. If you do love him like you say, you don't want the be the cause of any pain or misery in his life.
2007-06-25 09:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is no two way about it either you are part of the problem or part of the solution. the Bible says let every man have his own wife not someone elses. So many marriage are in trouble because of outsiders, and those who interfere not maybe ,but surely will answer to GOD ALMIGHTY!!!!!! NO ESCAPE!!! there is always an outside solution not that it's right and some people always look for an easy way out instead of sticking and staying no matter what. you reap what you sow!!!!
2007-06-25 09:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.Tricey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess that's totally up to you. Here are your chioces: You can be a HOMEWRCKING HOE. Or you can do the right thing and stay away from him. If he loves you then he will get a divorce. Would it hurt you to find someone single? Because that would definitely be the right thing to do. Think about what you may be doing to this family.
2007-06-25 09:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by TABBY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY in the relationship if you are willing to be:
(1) The back street woman
(2) Miss Second Choice
(3) Left alone on CHRISTMAS, 4th of JUly, and any
other time when his family comes first and come
last.
(4) Kept in the stable as the "spare mare" until a new
foal comes along.
2007-06-25 09:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure you're in love or in lust? give your love some time before you make the move. i read all the answers here for you and they're very good advices. everything takes time and location to happen and it seems like you have the location to meet him but the wrong time...since he met his wife before you. i feel totally for you...but just think that you'll feel this again with another man who can give you love back not trouble! feel better soon!
2007-06-25 09:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even is he left her for u, your troubles would not be over, because he will do the same to u as he is doing to her now. don't feel that u are any better than her or that he will respect u any more than he does her, after all he once loved her too. he is just trying to escape the real world, by running away with someone else. forget him, show a Little respect for yourself and run far away from this man, and save yourself later heartache.
2007-06-25 09:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read what you wrote: " I am totally in love BUT he has a wife".
Ignore everything BEFORE THE WORD "BUT".....
HE has a WIFE.
End of story. Respect his marriage. If he wants to cheat, have him find someone else to do it with.
2007-06-25 09:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a homewrecker!!!! Married men are NOT available! There are plenty of men out there who are single, and don't have wives or girlfriends. Find one of them. Please don't be another one of these women who not only destroys someones marriage, but then thinks that this man is going to leave his wife, be with you and not turn around and do the same thing to you!!!
2007-06-25 09:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by Meadow Soprano 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would love to make you feel better and say, go for it. You love him, so who cares, go ahead. But no, life does not work like that.
He's married, off limits. If you were married with someone you loved, I don't think you'd be happy to find out your friend loved your husband. Nope, you would not like that.
make no advances and look somewhere else.
2007-06-25 09:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by Camille 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it might hurt, find someone else. He won't leave his wife, no matter what he may tell you, and you will always be 'second' to him. If he loved you like you say you love him, he would have already initiated ending their relationship. Find someone who deserves your love and who can unconditionally give love to you.
2007-06-25 09:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by makeloans2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋