i'm a scorp that was madly in love with a Cancer. umm thoughts, please?

Question

Im so attached to a Cancer. but i have a boyfriend that im deeply in love with and is my better opposite half. The yin to my yang. Anyone ever have this sort of problem??? I don't care much for advice caz im not doin anything wrong. But i want to hear about yurs thoughts and experiences.

<3 happily hurting me from time to time... everytime he's on my mind...a love that burns a higher flame...just because i hear him say my name.

Answer 1

I'd say you're more of a Scorpio than I am, being able to cope with a Cancer at all... I couldn't, for the life of me! Then again, I'm half a Sagittarius and I do need my freedom. Cancer doesn't give that; they want to tie you down the minute you start going out with them.

But I know the feeling, though, being in love with someone when it's impossible - it's happened to me before and it happens to everyone, I'm sure. But somehow I think I've made the wrong decision; I chose for a normal future... Weel, since you asked for experiences; here's one. I was stuck in a love square even, rather than a triangle. Still mad about an ex, who dumped me - he was everything I wanted; young, gorgeous, intelligent, great in bed, funny, sweet, gentle - and I had just decided to play it fair and break up with the fella I was seeing then - twice my age, fair enough great in bed as well, experienced, adventurous, young at heart... more things that I wanted in a man, and he was kind of sexy - things happened and he decided he couldn't give me the future I most likely wanted, to which conclusion I came as well, nearly at the same time, so we broke up... pretty painstakingly because he was the one crying... anyway. I met someone else, same attitude as the gorgeous young ex, only minus all that which I wanted in him. Started going out with him, then the previous fella and myself got back in touch, one thing led to another again, I was seeing more of my ex and the messages he was sending weren't mixed - they were pretty bleedin' clear to me - which only confused me more.

I broke down, with pain in my heart told the older fella that I couldn't see him anymore because I had to work things out for myself (his response that he would stare at me through the window every time he'd see me pass made it even more painful), then decided to tell my ex I was still mad about him.

That never happened, even though a friend of mine nearly forced me to do it, and that same night I had the best opportunity... but I eventually made a choice.

I chose for the drunken eejit... the only one silly enough to stay with me, and even though I'm sure he'll stay with me, even though I know he is madly in love with me - even though he won't admit it even if his life depended on it - I still think I made the wrong choice. He's definitely not the yang to my yin, and he definitely isn't what I've been looking for in a man... I'm still dreaming of the other two - which makes it all the more confusing because I can't even narrow it down to one...

Answer 2

Well, do you think you are going to try anything with this Cancer? You're attached to him, you might want to watch out because Cancers have a romantic thing for Scorpios. (take it from me I am a Cancer I know). All I can say is you better get a game plan because if you are finding yourself in love with this guy all it takes is one arugment from your Yin and your Yang will be runny into that Cancers arms.
I've seen it all to many times but you know yourself better than me.

Answer 3

I'm a moon maiden that was deeply in love with a Scorpio (both water signs). We were so in sinc we could read each others minds. The sex was hotter than the sun, but most scorps have issues (please don't write me about this, we all have issues, except for me, ha ha) and his were too much for me to handle, and he became abusive, we got married and it only lasted a year. It was either, we were making love or we were fighting, there wasn't much in between. That was 8 years ago and even tho I'm married to another now, I still think about my ex Scorpio every day.
Your last paragraph is right on when it comes to a Cancer/Scorpio relationship!

Answer 4

First, you have to come to terms that Horoscopes and other such astrology are basely nonsense. How can you possible believe that the positions of stars that have have no relevance or constellationally consistent shape can somehow determine what you should do. It is a cop out basically. You are looking for some justification for feeling and acting as you do. There was a time that humans believed that the Earth was the center of all things, and that is when horoscopes/astrology began. We now know that the Earth is in fact a very small insignificant place in terms of the wonder s of the universe, that our sun is a rather dullish medium star, and that our solar system in out in the boonies of a galaxy, one of a very many galaxies. Stop trying so hard to imprint horoscopes and such on your life. You do know that the more you try to find relavance, the easier it becomes to convince yourself. Pleasde start to thjink for yourself, and be honest with what you are doing with regards to others.

Answer 5

If you don't want advice, why are you posting on a Question and Answer board?