I have asked outright and she denies it. I have also heard other things from some of my friends wives but they will not talk about it with me. How can I tell? Are there any words I can drop? My wife is very feminie. Are there any body signals? I am confused and wonder why she will not tell me. How could I find out with out her being aware?
2007-06-25 08:37:01 · 5 answers · asked by jdm75 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
What if she did tell you, but you just won't believe her.
If you want to keep your wife, turn off the paranoia and turn on the charm. Stop acting like a victim, and the chances are you won't actually become one.
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2007-06-25 08:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What makes you suspect this? It must be something. I would suppose you would find this out like you would should she be carrying on with a man: odd moments when she leaves the house, no explanations for certain actions, hiding phone calls and messages away, sly emails and such. Should she be having one; it might be harder to tell though, as women often have close friendships with other women without any sex going on.
What about your friends' wives? They bring something up and then drop it? Ask them to either explain themselves, or drop the subject if they cannot be forthright.
I think I need a bit more information before I could offer and advice.
2007-06-25 08:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by hopflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your course/approach. Tell here you get turned on by the thought of her getting with another women, you really want to watch,etc. Set up the meet with a willing party. If she goes for it, maybe she has been swinging that way for a while. Now you have to decide, is this something your morals will let you share, or are you over?
2007-06-25 08:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by stallionmarine 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know how to tell but you have to trust me.
First you have to find something to do from the house for at least and 2 hours when you and her have free time. you must do this for about 2wks so she'll get used to it. then after that time is up if she is not concern with where you have been why don't you invite me or nothing she is on to something
good luck=)
2007-06-25 09:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by kay b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awesome.....I would tell her to bring a friend anytime she wants, 3somes are pretty nice.
2007-06-25 09:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Hakker 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋