He's addicted to porn and wack off to it all the time. It comes to the point that i hate it when he does it. It feels as though he is cheating on me. He told me he's not going to stop. So what should I do/
2007-06-25 08:28:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I understand how you feel. One of my ex's was addicted to porn, and i'm afraid to say couldn't part from it. Unfortunately it is normal for guys to act this way around it and to masturbate to it is absolutely normal. I understand your emotions though and why you feel this way - tell him that it makes you feel really uncomfortable and unsettled with yourself. If he insists on sticking with it, then tell him not to do it when you're around. If he's man enough, he'll understand your feelings.
I hope this helped you.
2007-06-25 08:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by ♥H] ッ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been shown that people who are addicted to and maturbate to pormo have great difficulty in having normal relationships. You have probably already seen some signs of this but have avoided really thinking about it. Try to engage him in mutual maturbation while watching porno. If he has reason to object, this is a big sign that he really has emotional problems and it will never get any better than it already is. At that point you have a hard decision to make whether to stay or go. What he is doing is selfish and a deal breaker in my book.
2007-06-25 15:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bf is addicted to porn and needs to give it up in a major way. As for masturbation. Masturbation is with men there whole life. Their first sex was with masturbation, masturbation helped them to control the wild erections and arousal. Men masturbate for all kinds of reasons. When partners come along we give it up but often men are more aroused more often than a partner wants to have sex. At first the girl says anytime and anyplace when you need I will give it. Then she begins to where out and it is not always convenient. So do with out or masturbate. Tell him to give up porn but to keep masturbating and you want to learn as much as possible about what he likes. Good luck
2007-06-25 15:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by Geo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be the age he is at. Men do have strong urges toward sex. If it bothers you that much, you need to decide if it is something you can get over. He has told you he isn't going to stop so is this something you can get over? If you can learn to deal with it, then you need to leave him alone about it. If it is something that you can't get over, it is time to move on. You can't change other people. You need to decide if you can accept this or not. Think about all the other things that you like/love about him, are they worth it? He could be like this for the rest of his life, he's already told you that he isn't going to change. At least he was honest. Now be honest with him and yourself.
2007-06-25 15:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Tonya L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say that I wouldn't worry about it but it's weird that he does it to the porn...that would bother me too in a way...I wouldn't call it cheating though.
He has you why is he still bothering with the porn?? That's just me though
2007-06-25 15:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by Erica F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accpept it. it nothing to worry about hes not cheating on you. masterbation is something almost every guy does and is sometimes a life style for guys. but if you really want to get him off it then just show him that having sex with a real girl himself is betetr than watching other people do it or using your hand. good luck though!
2007-06-25 15:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure that you just hate the idea that he's looking at porn? I mean, if you're jealous of your boyfriend's left hand, then you are highly insecure.
2007-06-26 23:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be able to cope with that and would break up with him if it is something he won't give up. But, I know I am very insecure and jealous, so knowing other people made turned him on would make me feel crappy. That's just me though.
2007-06-25 15:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by jeeperamyjo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend has a problem, and if he doesn't do anything about it he's going to have serious problems with his sex life. Have you told him how you feel? If you have, and his answer is that he's not going to stop, kick him to the curb.
2007-06-25 15:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE CANNOT CONTROL HIS URGES, BUT FOR A TEEAGE BOY THIS IS NOT UNUSUAL. SURPRISING HE BRAGS ABOUT IT SO MUCH...
THEN AGAIN, IF HE WAS IN A GOOD RELATIONSHIP HE'S DEVOTE HIS ENERGY TO HIS GIRLFRIEND AND NOT HIS P**S.
FIND SOMEONE WHO'S MORE RESPONSIBLE.
2007-06-25 15:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Albert, DDS, (USA) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋