I'm NERVOUS - R R NERVOUS - PLZ HEP?

Question

1) is it scary having sex for the first time girls? How does it feel? FREAKY?
2) If I go to a doctor and ask them (I'm 18) for a fertility test - to check fertility levels, will they do one in the clinic?

Answer 1

grow up.

Answer 2

1. I found it really scary the first time ... and therefore NOT enjoyable! But if the guy is nice then he'll understand - and ease you in gently ... so to speak! (not meaning to be rude!).
You may have broken your HYMEN naturally by now (being 18) - I had ... because I used to do a lot of horse riding. YES - it is true People! I think half the reason for it hurting is because we're so nervous - just relax.
And - Well Done - for saving it until 18! That's brilliant these days!

2. sorry - no idea. Do you really need to know how fertile you are? You don't want to be having kids at this age .... plenty of time for that!

Best of luck,
Bev

Answer 3

Sex is only 'freaky' if you don't want it. If you really want sex, you would not feel 'freaky' and you would want it as much as your partner does. If you feel uncomfortable during sex you should always say so, so your partner can stop.

You could try asking for a fertility test, but you will probably have to have a reason prepared. They won't do one by the click of a finger I don't think. You could try, though - Good Luck!

Answer 4

I'm a little confused why you're asking about losing your virginity and fertility tests in the same question...but to answer both: 1) yes, sex hurts a little the first time, but it's nothing you won't be able to handle. 2) you can buy over the counter test strips to check your hormone levels in your urine to determine your most fertile days.

Answer 5

I don't thing they check that at the clinic, especially not at a free clinic. You should go there and get yourself some protection before you do anything. It is scary for the first time but it does not hurt it is way over rated and if I were you I would wait till about 20.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

yes it is scary the first time but it will be ok once you relax. i do have to say the first time is never really fun because you will probably be too tight to get anything through. at least it was that way with me. the fertility level thing i don't know about. you will have to ask your doc.

Answer 8

your only 18 so why would you want a fertility test your too young to have a kid and should not be planning on having one that young, it never hurt for me the first time felt wierd and did not really enjoy it but it does get alot better ; )

Answer 9

1. Scary? No. Freaky? Maybe.

2. Probably but don't expect them to have instant answers. Doctors always make you wait.

Answer 10

nervous? 4 what r u gona die or somebody gona kill u? no then be happy, because time is the answer 4 every Q speak about ur problem to some one very close to u and be positve and if u have done some thing wrong correct it whatever may be the reasult but if u r right stick to it everthing will b fine.GOD BLESS U>

Answer 11

You've waited this long without it, why the sudden turn around? its not just losing your virginity but your talking about fertility tests too? is that because you want to fall pregnant or your using it to determine days safer to have sex without falling pregnant? My best advice is if your thinking about losing your virginity choose a partner that is long term, kind and totally respectful of you. please wear protection, I had my son at 18. yes I thought I could cope, but the father couldn't! and its hard on your own! Please think this through seriously before making any rushed decisions.