hey everyone i have a little problem and i need help. i love my girlfriend to death and she tells me that she loves me to. over this past weekend, she told me that she wants to take a little break but she still loves me. she claims that she just wants to make sure that she really loves me. she just wants to try it out for the summer. she also told me that i am holding her back a little. by that i mean, when she goes out w/ her friends, she want to meet new people but she feels guilty b/c i am alway on her mind. wat should i do, i have never been in this situtation. and i dont want to lose her. one other thing, she lives 5 hrs away rite now b/c she is in school. if anyone can help that would be great.
2007-06-25 07:35:25 · 12 answers · asked by gteeters44 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You need to let her go. Your girlfriend is already cheating on you and you don't even realize it. If she loved you like she says she does, she would never want a break.
2007-06-25 07:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by dancinggopher01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love something set it free, if it comes back to it is yours, if it doesn't it never was. You are in a difficult position, but unfortunately you have to do as she asks. It is a good test of a relationship, and I think this girl is being very wise indeed. She sounds like she is young and wants to experience a bit of life before she gets too committed. There are always letters and the phone so it's not as though you can't keep in contact. The more you try to hold on to her the more you will push her away. You need to step back and let her know how much you love her and that you will be there for her when she decides what she wants. Look upon it as a positive experience, although I am sure that's not the way you are feeling right now. Good luck
2007-06-25 14:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by Dr Paul D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not only there is nothing wrong with it, in a way, it may prove 2 b essential. Making a break 4 some time, is good. This gives both a chance 2 think about the other one more. When u r together again, in a way u know each other better. How much u miss each other, can only b known by breaking off 4 sometime.
2007-06-25 14:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by ahsan a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants space from U and she lives 5 hours away I would say that she probaly wants out and I am so sorry to tell U this but thats what I believe that would mean.Just let her go as bad as it hurts, if it's meant to be then it will be.U need to go out and meet other people too though.Don't just sit there and wait for her.Who know's?Maybe the love of your life is out there waiting to meet U this summer!!Good Luck!!
2007-06-25 14:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's understandable that she wants some space, although I know how hard that is going to be on her.
Give it a try... It'll be hard, but a little distance might be a good thing and it'll be so much better when she realizes that she really wants you.
2007-06-25 14:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by Seán_18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the space she is requiring. By trying to stay connected, will only push her further away. And it still may. There is nothing more miserable than losing someone you love, but if it is one side love, it will never work.
2007-06-25 14:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by Midwest guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants to break up with you without hurting your feelings. Also, she wants to keep you hanging on just in case.
I would start looking for another girlfriend.
2007-06-25 14:43:33 · answer #7 · answered by Max 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should really talk to her and ask her honestly if she does really love you and whether she will really want to get back together or is it just to fob you off so she can go and have fun
2007-06-25 14:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some space 4 a while....this will help both of u guys grow a better realtionship
2007-06-25 14:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by Andrea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...quit posting the same question....and try posting it in the correct category....RELATIONSHIPS.....and...pretty simple...your gf is wanting to "explore" other "options" without cheating on you...
2007-06-25 14:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by MiCopChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋