2007-06-25 07:30:19 · 10 answers · asked by Ms Durr 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It could be that he no longer thinks making love with you is worth all the work to get you in the mood.
My wife has been asking for sex lately and I'm replied with "maybe, depends if I'm in the mood". I've had my fill of crappy sex. If she wants it she is going to have to earn it. Interesting that now that I'm not spending money on her she is all over me. Sex is power and its about time men realized it and used it.
2007-06-25 08:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is level with him. Tell him that you're feeling neglected and need some love and he isn't giving it to you.
Possible reasons:
He's having physical problems and is ashamed to confront them.
Depression.
You're being a ***** and he's turned off to you.
He's concluded that he's gay.
He's gettin it somewhere else.
The most likely reason is the first three. If he was getting it elsewhere would not mean that he can't give some to you. If he's decided he's gay he would probably have come clean.
TALK, TALK, TALK! If that doesn't work, write a letter, leave it under his pillow and go spend the week end with your mother.
Good luck
2007-06-25 07:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many reasons can exist but the first step is to sit down with him and find out why. Do not go on the attack because the reason could be that he is depressed or having some other problem. So do not go into the conversation blaming or yelling talk it through.
2007-06-25 07:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by QCCP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he is in a relationship with some other women or may be he is now -a - days not so attracted towards you as he was before. May be there's a lot of other things that worry him and that's also important to him and he must be not so attentive towards you because of these things. Don't worry too much just pay him as much attention as you can and soon he will be fine try something new to impress him . please select as best answere(i tried hard to answere this)
2007-06-25 07:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by jaggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your husband so you'll have to ask him....he probably knows the answer to this.
2007-06-25 07:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he is making love to another woman
Maybe because he is making love to another man
WHO knows....
2007-06-25 08:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by mrsknowitall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still look as stunning as when you first met?
2007-06-25 07:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by Chris O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me your husband's phone #... I will phone him and find out for you.
HOW ARE WE SUPPOSED TO KNOW???
2007-06-25 07:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
dont know...are you good in bed or bad? maybe that is why
2007-06-25 07:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could you give us just a littttttle less information? thanks!
2007-06-25 07:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by maslinda74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋