Im ugly, what should i do?

Question

*cry*

Answer 1

love yourself anyway!

Answer 2

Well, if you're saying that physically you're not attractive in any way at all. There's nothing we can do about that. The best you can do is accept the fact what you look like and you're unattractive. I don't use the word ugly because when you say ugly it is something so horrible and unhuman. And I don't think you're ugly, you're just not attractive.

Being ugly is horrible and unhuman that there's no way to change it. But not being attractive can be remedied.

You look around and watch the people around you. Try to find what hairstyle you think will look good on you, something that in a way radiate that unattractive face. Imagine yourself with that hairstyle. Try to find clothes that show your body figure if you have one but not revealing and provocative. Just something simple and decent looking and a little sexy. If you need a makeup to lighten it up just put on very little, probably an eyeliner, powder and a lip gloss. Never put to much make up as being natural always tend to be better.

And lastly, remember people are never the same and have different taste, what might not look attractive at one person doesn't necessarily is the same with another person. You need to believe in youself because no one can make yourself better than yourself. If you're going to sulk then you will be lonely and sad at your own doing.

What are the use of a beautiful face if you have a rotten heart? Much more can be love in someone who have beatuful heart even with an unattractive face.

Answer 3

I'm not going to waste your time telling you the standard psychological hoopla about improving your self-esteem as others have almost certainly done a better job on that tack than I could. What I would offer instead are practical tips:

1. Seek professional help: Get a makeover. Learning proper techniques for styling your appearance with make up and for styling your hair will help you feel much better about your appearance.

2. Go to an age-appropriate clothing store and seek the advice of the clerks. Most clerks in clothing stores tend to be fashion forward and will gladly give you advice in hopes of making a sale.

3. Take a dance class. Dance will teach you poise and how to carry yourself in public.

4. If you are overweight, then lose weight. It's real easy to do: Calories burned must be greater than calories consumed. Exercise every day, and reduce your food consumption.

5. Increase your income. People with good incomes usually don't have to worry what they look like because everyone admires them anyway.

Answer 4

Well, If you think that you are ugly then I guess that you are. I don't mean to sound rude when I say that but its just that the beautiful people in this world have self confidence. You can't do anything when you are as you say 'ugly' NOBODY and I mean NOBODY is ugly. People that say that they are ugly are ugly though so its your fault for saying that. What do you expect me to do give you 1 million dollars so you can get plastic surgery. You are ugly in the lack of self confidence. And DON'T say you are ugly. Unless you only want empathy. I am sorry that you think that you are ugly when I am sure that you are very beautiful.

Answer 5

Hey ugly is a state of mind. If you are not what the world considers to be attractive physically, don't let it bother you. What is considered Hot changes. And even if you are never considered beautiful, there is so much more important things to think about. Try to enjoy life without buying into the brainwashing of society and you will be much happier. I doubt you are ugly, but seiously if you will notice people who are happy are more attractive and nicer to be around. Don't let what you look like rule your happiness. If it is some guy your wanting to impress, maybe you should look for a guy whos not shallow. There are a few of them out there I hear. I haven't found one yet though. I think they are a myth. Good Luck

Answer 6

Since I don't know what you look like, it's hard to give you advice on what to change. First thing, however, is that you have got to gain some confidence. Stop telling yourself that you are ugly. That is really damaging your self-esteem. Now decide what you want to change about yourself. Get a new haircut? Buy a new outfit? Lose a few pounds? Make a list of a few things that you would like to change (things that you actually have control over) and do it. Most importantly, though, stop beating yourself up.

Answer 7

1. Beauty is as beauty does.
Think of ten really nice things you can do for someone else.
Commit yourself to doing those things. Tell your mom you love her. Hug someone. Make a card for someone.
In other words, turn your eyes away from the mirror and towards others.

2. List all the things in this life that you feel are beautiful and worthwhile... baby animals, the taste of watermelon, the feel of the ocean...

If you are young, it is normal to "feel" as though you are ugly... however, if you get caught up on that train of thought, you will be in danger of being stuck on yourself in a negative way.

Focus outside yourself... make sure you are clean and well combed, then stop worrying about how you think you look.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....

Answer 8

ok ive said this to alot of ppl but beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it's always been true. you may see yourself as ugly while the random boy or man at the mall thinks you're the hottest thing walking. If you are the one thinking you are ugly plz stop, if others are telling you that you are ugly don't listen.

Answer 9

I'm sure that you are not truly ugly, but you just have some flaws. If it's your teeth, get braces. If it's your long nose, see a makeup expert to show you ways to camoflage its length. If you have too many zits, see a dermatologist. Also, I would advise seeing a counselor or talking to somebody about this. How you feel about yourself has a great deal to do with your self esteem and it is important to feel good about yourself.

Answer 10

no one's ugly....
just remember, {this is what a friend of mine told me}>>>>
no matter how bad u *[think u]* are, there'll always be 1000 people worse off than you.

haha the cool thing is that u change the "bad" & "worse" to "good" & "better" when you're saying it to people with TOO much confidence~
it makes me feel better(I have issues with myself too) and you realise that the world is made up of so many different people, and that in the end appearances don't really matter..

you're not ugly
u seriously need to see a therapist

Answer 11

You can't be totally ugly. Theres got to be something attractive about you eyes, legs, etc. I think you may have low self-esteem you should get out with the girls do something go shopping anything everyone is beautiful in their own way. :)