Sex every Night?

Question

Hi there,
I think i have this strange problem in me, I want to have a sex everyday and my partner sometimes gets annoyed with it, so we dont do untill after 2 or 3 days. I also have slight problem how to arouse her, anybdoy here who can give me some good tips as i am not sure if i am doing everything fine/accordingly to the rules :>
Secondly, what should i do to calm myself down.

please girls advice on this matter?

Answer 1

Speak to your partner about this and just learn to control yourself a bit and learnt to think about love and not s*x all the time!! xx

Answer 2

I think your girlfriend should be flattered. To calm yourself down you will have to pleasure yourself instead on the days that she is not interested in sex, maybe she would be willing to give you a ******** instead, or let you pleasure yourself whilst in the same room so you can look at her and come on her breasts.

Foreplay doesn't start in the bedroom, it is in all the little things you do throughout the day. You should treat her like she is a princess. There aren't any "rules" as you put it, have fun exploring each others bodies. Try giving each other massages with oil, that should get her in the mood, as will little fluttery kisses on her neck and gentle caressing and sucking on her nipples. Maybe try some oral sex on her to get her more in the mood....start by kissing her stomach and inner thighs....tease her until she can take no more. Make it your aim to give her an orgasm, make sure she really enjoys herself, and make sure you are attentive to her after, lay there for a while kissing and cuddling. Then she might be a bit more enthusiastic about it....at the moment it comes across that she feels like she is doing you some kind of favour. Sometimes though, women don't want it every day, maybe she feels a bit sore down there?? If so, try using some lubrication next time.

She's a lucky lady! All this research you're doing, purely for her pleasure....hope she appreciates it! Have fun!

Answer 3

Everyone has different sex drives and for a couple to have the same or similar is really unusual.

Just try to show her lots of love and care, rather than force sex upon her, and I feel she would be more forthcoming?

Womens arousal comes more from the mind, as opposed to men who tend to be aroused by visual means. Tell her how much you want to please her, and ask what you should do, then do it!

If she isn't in the mood, don't put pressure on her for sex because she will feel like a sex object and less inclined to want to do it in the future.

Answer 4

Don't ever try to get her to when she isn't in the mood because it won't end up being pleasant for either of you.

Kisses in different spots like her neck, her chest, her hand, and hot spots like that are very arousing. Touching spots like the swan of her back and the curves above her hips. Being romantic and cooking or dancing with her are also very arousing. Another great way is to give her a massage with candles and oils and things like that.

To calm yourself down maybe you should try just being close to her, hugging her and laying with her somehwere. Things where you can be close but you aren't having sex. Getting off by yourself might relive sexual tention aswell.

Good luck!

Answer 5

Just two thoughts: First, relationships are about getting to know each other, how to please each other (and yourself at the same time). There are no "rules." That's what honeymoons are for (not just to hit the ground running, with a a week or two of continuous perfect sex).

And second, there's no reason why either of you can't just masturbate the other if one of you needs sex and the other isn't the mood, which is bound to happen with any couple. It doesn't always have to be about intercourse.

Answer 6

I thought all men had this problem, I sure do, and I have been married for 18 years. Let me tell you what works for me, most of the time she will tell me hurry up and do what you got to do, but if she's in the mood when we start foreplay I concentrate on her nipples and clit, this has worked for me. Be very gentle with the clit, and I also have been experiencing with a vibrator with a clit stimulator on it, she loves it. Always remember guys can be in any mood and still have sex, woman can only be in one mood to do it.

Dude don't try to control yourself, its natural.

Answer 7

SEX EVERY NIGHT IS NOT A BAD THING. BUT IF SHE DOESNT WANT IT, DONT FORCE HER. LIKE PEOPLE WERE SAYING BEFORE, YOU NEED TO TALK TO HER AND LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. MAY THERE IS SOMETHING ELSE THAT YOU GUYS CAN DO INSTEAD OF SEX. WITH MY GIRLFRIEND WE HAVE SEX ALL THE TIME AND THAT IS ONLY B/C WE BOTH WANT TO. IF ONE OF US DOESNT WANT TO WE DONT PRESSURE EACHOTHER, WE MAINLY JSUT LET IT COME NATURALLY. ALSO, IF YOU GIVE IT UP FOR A COUPLE OF DAYS, IT JUST MAKE THE NEXT TIME THAT MUCH BETTER. I HOPE THIS HELPS

Answer 8

Good Idea.People are not the same through out the year.You have to swtich on the tube light.Find out what arouses her and do it.Foreplay is as important as sex.

Answer 9

yes please!!!
oh sorry your not asking me for it lol.
i am a woman by the way lol.there is nothing wrong with it every night ,me n my hubby were at it twice a day for years till kids came along.i am sure your doing it right ask her what she likes fantasises about doing what can you do that she would like more and you tell her same.not everyone is as keen as me...maybe a new partner lol

Answer 10

You have a much higher sex drive than your partner. I also have this with my fiance, he could easily have sex up to five times a day and it often leaves me feeling pressured.