My ex and I broke up 10 months ago now we're in a position to rule over something should I do it?

Question

It's been 10 months and we're still close but he doesn't show me any signs of intrest in me the person he's going to be ruling with...I talked to him about it and he didn't say anything, litterally, so should I push for the rule in order to benefit @ least 12+ other people or just leave it alone? Also with this ruling I keep wanting him to be around me, and I don't want that right now.

By ruling I mean: Him and I are going to be the head over everything his Mother and Father have built together. They can't do it right now because they're not strong enough together (at this given point in time) therefore him and I were the next best thing. We're supposed to move everything forward while keeping everything intact until they're ready to come back, so here we are.

It isn't a legal thing but it's just a position of leadership

Answer 1

please stop being so co-dependant do what you feel in your heart

Answer 2

I'm not trying to be mean but I really have no idea what you are talking about with "ruling". Is this legal, or a job, or what. I will say that if you and your ex are finished, then keep if finished. Start anew, and stay away from each other so you can both move on to better things.

Answer 3

you obviously still have feelings for this guy, otherwise you wouldnt even be considering this. if he doesnt care about you, why should you care? show your independence and do whatever YOU want. dont pay attention to him ,thats what he wants.

Answer 4

what do you mean by "ruling"? sorry. i'm kinda confused by your wording.

edit: ok. don't get invloved with his parent's things if you're not involved with him. it can get messy and annoying. good luck!

Answer 5

Don't worry about anything but how YOU want to vote.

Answer 6

sorry.