A female exposed her jealousy towards me and my man's relationship by always having something to say when we were together or just popping up whenever she knew that we were together...Well...she has a cousin who dated this man(she and her cousin are close),after her cousin stopped dating him and found someone else, SHE begins dating the same man that her cousing used to date! Explain this to me...why would she even want to consider dating a man that has already been with her cousin? Is this not dirty and disgusting?
2007-06-25 03:46:50 · 5 answers · asked by **Sparkle** 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I think it's a little degrading on her part. Not to sound bad, I have no right to judge anyone. I am friends with a few of my cousin's ex's. But I'd never date them. If you care about your couin you'd never do that. It'd make things awkward you know. Her jealousy for you and your man might be what rushed her into this relationship. Youknow?? Don't feel bad chick get your glam on. Kiss like nobodies watchin, love like everyones greeneyed. And you and your man stay happy don't let her drama rain on ur parade!!
Good Luck!!! Brittney
2007-06-25 03:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Brittney B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There doesn't seem to be anything wrong with it. Why would it be "degrading"? If they're cousins, it's not as though they live together and are forced to see each other constantly like two sisters. Do you expect this "jealous" girl to date only virgin men or what? Who cares if he's been with her cousin. I don't understand.
I would like to know, however, _why_ the girl's cousin broke up with him. That should be some indicator to jealous girl whether anything negative was going on with him. Maybe he's fine. Maybe her cousin just found someone she had more in common with. Who knows. If the two cousins haven't hurt each other by their decisions (like the one dating the boyfriend after he had broken up with the other cousin wasn't over him yet), I don't see what the problem is.
2007-06-25 12:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? How is this important? Let her date who she wants, her cousin's relationship was over with him anyway.
2007-06-25 13:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by Maria b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, just because they're related, it doesn't mean anything. It's just the same if they didn't know eachother. The other woman left, he's open to anyone. So, no, it's not dirty or disgusting.
2007-06-25 10:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by Selleniah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm lost. need diagram X-)
2007-06-25 10:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋