2007-06-25 03:04:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
cool question-I hate crying in front of people. I dont like seeming vulnerable, I think. I also despise sympathy for the most part. I mean the type of sympathy when its obvious the person is only looking to make themselves look wonderful (priest did it to me once, I wasnt even in the mood till he started up about my dad. What a jerk!) --I call that forcing sympathy on people.
Nope, dont like to cry in front of others!
2007-06-25 03:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by gaia_fanatic 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
For me, It is very very very very hard to cry either in the presence of people or not.
This problem is not concerned with the personality but because since i was a child....you know dad is in his work and mum is in her work and i am in school and after school i was training in karate and tikondo
The raising up from the begining was too hard
Really, you can get up from that iam scientifically excellent
very violent as i am now an expert in beating due to karate and tikondo and very isolated
I didn't allow anyone since i was child to see me cry or to cry even to my self
After all i read that those who are not crying can be victims to hypertension, coronary diseases, depression and so on
I am trying to heal my self now
2007-06-25 03:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Radical Vampire 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I watch a movie on my own, I will cry my eyes out. But when I am watching it with someone, then it's impossible to make me cry. I can be on the verge of crying, but I will never actually cry. Crying is personal. I feel embarrased to cry infront of others, rather like most men but I'm a girl.
2007-06-25 03:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
when i was young, i used to hide (sometimes even in the closet, and cry quietly).. mainly cuz i didn't want the other person to know that they hurt me so they won't feel bad or guilty about it! (i know i was stupidly kind and thoughtful)!!
as i grew older, i had less control over my tears.. and i didn't bother to hide my emotions (but i still act cool and hold my tears when i'm 'physically' hurt by someone -even when the pain is intolerable- so they won't feel guilty for hurting me)..
i don't think it's personal as much as too much concern about other ppls feeling (more than my own)!
2007-06-25 03:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Deema 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hide it.
When I was younger, I was a really eazy target for bullies. Over the years I had to grow a backbone, I think I grew a shell instade.
2007-06-25 03:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Crazygirl ♥ aka GT 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
'I am rather emotional or sensitive if you will. I like to think that my tears are God's way of cleaning the soul from the junk I have put into it.
The old saying is what you put in...comes out. If people get 'un-nerved' by my show of emotion I feel sorry for them that they do not have themselves 'together'.
2007-06-25 03:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by King de Puttenham 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
whenever i cry,i hide my tears!
2007-06-25 05:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't cry.
I'm proud of my penis and I don't want it to fall off.
:)
2007-06-25 03:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋