'You always look beautiful', I said. 'But I do not feel beautiful that often', she replied, 'do you know why?'
2007-06-25 02:30:55 · 22 answers · asked by Shahid 7 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
The second half of the question is the clue. It sounds rhetorical
to me, so I suspect that she thinks that you have something to
do with her not feeling that way. IF.....you feel that she truly is, then
tell her, and act like it. I am afraid that a women cannot be de-
ceived in this regard. They always know if you speak the truth.
P.S. Please tell a child (any child) how beautiful they are today
Low self esteem seated in childhood is responsible for MANY of the problems they
and we,having to deal with them later face as adults.
From: My usual drop dead georgeous self. LOL
2007-06-25 02:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, we feel the beauty when we admire the 'looks' of other person. Now if the other person does not feel one's own beauty, we cannot help it.
Appreciation of 'beauty' is an emotion in manifest form. It is 'felt' like love etc. Otherwise, some of the best paintings (modern art) if not perceived the way the painter or others felt, cannot be appreciated as 'beautiful' !
2007-06-25 04:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are some of the most beautiful people some of the the most shallow and selfish.... feeling beautiful and looking beautiful are two different things... there are beautiful creatures in this world but they are also some of the most deadly....
2007-06-25 05:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women have days where they just don't feel that good about themselves. Maybe she felt like she gained weight, or that zit is driving her crazy, or she can't get into her favorite jeans. I think you are wonderful guy to say that to her. And I will tell you a little secret - the more you tell her that she is beautiful the more beautiful she will become. You are a good guy to give your lady confidence.
2007-06-25 02:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by Catherine R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is a state of mind as much as what people can see. I think if you are feeling good on the inside i.e. happy and healthy, then you can feel beautiful.
2007-06-25 02:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I feel beautiful. I love who I am and where I am going. My heart is right. I need nothing else to know that I am beautiful. Validation only comes from within.
2007-06-25 04:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't always regard myself as beautiful on the inside but externally, I know I'm quite a good-looking guy, yes. I'm not being vain: I just have no real hang-ups with my body 'cause it's a damn fine body and just lacks the attention it deserves if the truth be told. (!)
2007-06-25 04:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because her concept of beauty iz based on how she feels. Do not forget feel'ns come and go, one day u feel beautiful and another or later in that same day ur not. Its all about Perception vs Conception about how u feel about ur beauty.
2007-06-25 02:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by Doktorzero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did this morning but then I got rained on on my way to work and my make up has run all down my face and my hair resembles some sort of nest
2007-06-25 02:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by lizzie c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,Its the Change in attitude that is required.The bilble says that we are fearfully and wonderfully made.Know and believe that you'r beautifull. Even if your urgly, your attitude will draw people to you!
Success!
2007-06-25 02:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by Hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋