ok well i have been with this girl for about 5 months now, we recently found out she was pregnant and we decided to keep it, then she decided she wanted a termination, i was cool with it i said i would support her, but the other night i held her friends new born baby when she found out she went mad and made up some stupid story saying i was hugging the mother and i fancy her bla bla, anyway now she has decided she wants the baby but thinks we should cool things down a bit,she is very paranoid and insecure (due to a previous bad relationship), i dont know what to do i love her so much and i keep telling her this but it seems like she dont believe me, i really do think she has some mental issues...
2007-06-25 02:10:20 · 19 answers · asked by Skillz_That_Killz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think all women are nuts.
2007-06-25 02:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
you can tell women things over and over agian and keep on we will still have the same old crap stuck in are heads once we have something in there then it is very hard for us to let go people push us and make us feel insecure especially in bad relationships ino it might sound a bit dubious and she probably will get snappy with you but you should keep telling her how you feel about her she is trying to distance herself from you because at the end of the day pushing people away that we love is what people do when they are hurting inside she could be thinking that she has made a mistake you dont get rid of a child without it crossing your mind what name you would have called it and how it would grow up i mean i am guessing that you are going to marry her so you will have children in the future just keep on drumming the same old stuff dont let her end your relationship cause i no i dont no her but that is probably the last thing she wants her head must be all over the place maybe she should go and see a councellor cause she just seems to be hiding from everything and pushing you away, good luck in your future x x x x x
2007-06-25 02:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a break. She has a lot on her mind. Look at things from her point of view. She has another human life growing inside her. You can walk away tomorrow and wash your hands of her and the baby. She is terrified about bringing a child into this world. She wants to make sure you both are ready. If were the one carrying the baby you'd undertstand a bit more. Her hormones are going crazy. Its only normal that she'd be a bit crazy!
2007-06-25 02:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by tender loving dyke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna keep it real-u've been dating 5 months and she's pregnant. U guys don't really know each other that well and now ur going 2 share a lifetime commitment. That's gotta b a major emotional ride 4 both of u. Take a step back and make sure that ur there for her by going to dr.'s appointments and let her know that ur going 2 b there. As 4 the relationship, take it slow b/c ur in 4 a rough ride. Good luck.
2007-06-25 02:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hormones
2007-06-25 02:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right, she sounds like she has had a rough time in the past but you seem really nice and as you love her you need to explain to her what you have told us. She sounds very needy and even though she's telling you that she want's to cool it she probably just wants to hear you say that you don't want to. She needs patience and understanding but let her know that you won't be used as an emotional punchbag.
good luck.
2007-06-25 02:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by andipandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt say she has mental issues, just lots of hormones rushing thro her body because of the pregnancy which wil be making her feel very insecure and she has not made a final decision about the baby - all you can do is to keep reassuring her and show her lots of love and affection, support whatever decision she makes - good luck to both of you
2007-06-25 02:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 10:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she's a bit hormonal and maybe in shock that she's pregnant if it wasn't planned which i'm guessing it wasn't.
When she found out you held her friends baby she probably was scared that you would want to keep the baby now.
think you should just sit down and have a proper talk about whether to keep it or not.
2007-06-25 02:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by shiv 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, just pregnant. That stuff happen because her hormones are going wild. To my knowledge it doesn't get any better till she pops it out. Enjoy the ride.
2007-06-25 02:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by shark81s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she may need counselling. being treated badly (i know from bitter experience) can seriously play with your head. just support her and be patient. if you love her like you say you do, you will pass the test of time. i am remarried now to a wonderful man, but i still have doubts. when i self analyse, i know it is down to my bad relationship, but i just cant let go 100%.
2007-06-25 02:16:01 · answer #11 · answered by val f1 nutter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋