Hello,
My husband is not ready to give me divorce. we leaving seperate since 3 months now. when i ask him for divorce he says whats urgent. I dont know whats in his mind. we both cant be together because of number of reasons and he knows that as well. Cna i not file for a case against him??? Is that gonna cost me too much???
2007-06-25 01:19:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This might be hard, but you need to put on your b*tchy hat. Make his life miserable every time you see him, embarrass him, tell all your friends about his sexual inadequacies, get a boyfriend of a different race. You need to make him realize he is better off without you, even if it goes against your better judgement. He is hanging on because he thinks there might be a chance or that you will "come to your senses."
2007-06-25 01:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You can file for divorce but I get his point. What is so urgent? I don't know the situation here but you should give him a little time for things to settle in. He probably wants to hold on because he thinks that it may still work. In his mind he has to know it's over too before he will want the divorce. And if you do it when he isn't happy any disputes with property or children could get messy. Give him a little more time if he needs it. I don't see the need to rush things.
2007-06-25 01:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can begin the proceedings. Depending on your place of residency you may have to wait a specified amount of time in separation for the divorce to go through. The cost is also dependant on the laws where you live and the lawyer you choose and if or if not the divorce is contested by your spouse.
2007-06-25 01:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband won't give you a divorce then in UK law you have to spend 2 years apart before the courts will consider your case.
2years sounds a long time but it will pass quickly if you fill your time with your friends and family.
Sorry can't be more helpful but that is the law of our land as it stands at the moment.
Good luck.
2007-06-25 01:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on what state you live in it could take a while before you get a divorce. You can file for divorce without him
2007-06-25 01:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have to seek the advice of a solicitor or a family law court to see if you can take further steps. Have you tried to seek a marriage counsellor yet or has the marriage breakdown has progressed far beyond repair? If you don't have a lot of money or not going to sue him ask if you can get legal aid. But ask questions first.
2007-06-25 01:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the rules about filing for divorce in your state and act accordingly
2007-06-25 01:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only takes one person to get a divorce. Hire a lawyer and start the process.
2007-06-25 01:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can file for divorce, but if he chooses to contest it, it will be more expensive than an uncontested (both sides agree to it) divorce.
2007-06-25 01:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can contact a lawyer to see what your options are, most of them give free consultations......you can file against him and file divorce papers.
good luck
2007-06-25 01:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by jelly_bean_19_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋