My wife is the best wife anyone could ever ask for in life. So, in return, I want to do something nice for her and something different than flowers, diner and a movie, and hanging out. What do you suggest?
2007-06-25 00:47:21 · 17 answers · asked by John K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a candle lit bath,(SHAVE HER LEGS FOR HER) feed her strawberries or something while she bathes. Follow that with a candlelit dinner in which you prepared. Don't know if you're the musician type but maybe play her a song or sing if you are. Dance with her. Give her the best massage she could ever imagine. Head to toe. Trust me, that'll mean the world to her. Also poetry works well. Not sure if you're a poet or not, but something from the heart. She'll never forget it.
2007-06-25 01:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by MrAnonyMuss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A couple things come to mind for you to do for your wife. The first is to "kidnap" her away for a night or a weekend. This will take a little planning to find someone to care for your children and make sure that your wife's schedule is flexible(no important meetings or appointments). Then make reservations at a nice B&B or hotel, have the room filled with her favorite flowers and candlelight. Pack her bag(and yours) and whisk her away for some fun and love. Along this line but less time consuming and more budget concsious is to plan a romantic picnic lunch in a beautiful park. Bring a CD player with her favorite music and perhaps you could write a list of the 10 ten things you love most about her/about being her husband. Another thing(also cost effective and maybe not so romantic sounding but nevertheless meaningful to some) would be to spend a day helping around the house. Ask her to identify a specific project or honey-do that she has been hoping to accomplish--washing windows or a new garden. It's even more fun when the two of you can work on it together. You, more than anyone else, know what might be meaningful to your sweet lady. I also bet that you'll receive some great suggestions from Yahooland so have fun with it. In the end, the best thing for her, I'm sure, is having a man like you who treasures and adores her each and every day. I'm sure she feels the very same about you. Take care.
2007-06-25 08:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about treating her to a day at the spa, followed by a manicure and a pedicure, followed by getting her hair done, and a quiet dinner on the beach while watching the sun set, ohh and don't forget the Luther Vandross CD's and most of all ENJOY EACH OTHER :) By the way High Fives to you for acknowledging your wife, and wanting to do something nice for her
2007-06-25 08:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by pookster4262 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about taking your wife away for a weekend to a B&b or a hotel, have the hotel make the room romantic, rose petals, dinner, wine, get a jacuzzi in the room and just spend some quality time with her. or take her on a nice trip somewhere where she wants to go and write her a little note explaining how much you love and appriciate her, i love when my hubby does stuff like this i think some time away is the best..good luck
2007-06-25 08:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by jelly_bean_19_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The night before call and make your wife an apt for a massage (and to get her nails done if you can do both) then write out a note telling her how much you love her and how much she means to you. In the note tell her that she has a massage waiting for her and make sure you give her the gift certificate and tell her what time to arrive. Also in the note, tell her that you would like her to accompany you for dinner at so and so time. Make sure you tell her what type of dress style to be in. You don’t want her putting on a nice dress and getting all pretty for McDonald's, but lets home you don’t plan on taking her there. If you can afforded it also, give her a gift card (that way you can pick the amount) and tell her to go get her a outfit for the evening.
Why she is out, start planning the night. Go buy some flowers and some wine for dinner, if you don’t know her favorite kind go with red or pink roses and some babies breathe. If you plan on cooking for her at home then I would say make sure the house is clean before you start. Set the table with 2 tall candles and then set some normal ones out around the house. By this time she should be coming home and you can meet her at the door (dressed in your best) and give her the flower and a kiss and let her know that dinner will be ready soon. Why she is getting ready start to cook dinner for her. Make some sort of salad, and maybe an appetizer. If you can set a table up outside that would be really nice, but inside is good also. After that bring out the main meal, make sure you help keep up a conversation during dinner. Don’t make her keep searching for new stuff to talk about. After dinner sit, talk and sip on your wine. After dinner has settles bring out her favorite dessert, or take her our for ice cream. (But don’t go driving around if you where drinking).
After dinner tell her you have some things to do in the bedroom and that you will be back to get her soon. That way she has some time to let dinner settle and go get all prettied up again. Once you are in the bedroom light some candles and make it as sweet as you can get it. Then pick out a movie that you know you will both enjoy and lie on the bed and watch the movie. (If you don’t have a TV in your bedroom you can do this in the living room). Then when the movie is over start kissing her and well…..I’ll leave the rest up to you.
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2007-06-25 08:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, little things matter tell her each day how special she is to you and put her first all the time. You could take her on get a way weekend and take her shopping. May be a day spa at saloon she would love that. Or you could order a dinner at one night give her massage and make love to her and tell her what she means to you. Good luck
2007-06-25 08:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her to a day at the spa with mud baths and massage, etc. Then cook her supper when she gets home and do all the clean up afterwards.
Or write her a poem or letter. Even if it's not that great, she'll love it because it's from you and personalized for her. Women love that stuff...
2007-06-25 07:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
send her flowers to work anyways..
its always nice to get flowers at work.. and make all the other ladies envious.. :)
secondly.. maybe take her for a lovely walk in nature.. find a nice spot for a picnic.. maybe take a nice dip in the water if there is water near by :)
2007-06-25 07:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her for a quick cheap plane ride round trip even if it's just another city, that's if she or you are not afraid of heights lol! or light up the house w/ many many candles...borrow them if you are broke, lol! make alot of signs outside, saying perhaps, "the best wife lives here" lol! and have a picnic around or in the signs lol!
2007-06-25 07:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a message and explain all the ways she is so perfect during .
2007-06-25 08:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋