he noticed that i dont like having sex and he say's that he is fine with it, however i feel as though he might leave me if i dont sleep with him. we enjoy each other's company but sex is out of the question. am just a bit worried that he might leave on those grounds.
2007-06-25 00:28:55 · 18 answers · asked by choi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he is only with you for the sex, then eventually he will leave you anyway, so if he should leave count it a blessing, there is more to relationships than sex, the sooner people realize this the better they will be. However, if he is not pressing you to have sex, then he could be telling the truth and it may really not matter to him. So again if its all about the sex, then let him leave, and be happy that he is gone, and you should not want to date anyone if all they are thinking about is sex, I am sure you have more going for you than just sex
2007-06-25 01:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by pookster4262 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's willing to leave you just because of sex then you don't need to be with him anyway. There is so much more to a good relationship than sex. If you enjoy each other's company and are having fun I see no reason why he would leave you.
2007-06-25 00:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by zookeeper2100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend cares about you as a person the sex thing won't matter to him, but if all he's after is sex than yes he probably will dump you... By the way if your not ready don't ever let anyone convince you it's OK as you will live to regret giving in before it was the right time for you...This is very personal and everyone should be allowed to make up their own mind as to when it's right for them and that includes if you want to wait til your older or married... :-)
2007-06-25 00:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by oma_30701 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if he will bt if he does he doesnt love u at all.. dont stay with him if he stays with u for sex... of course it also depends how old u r... if u r a teenager then u should do it when u feel ready and not out of pressure or fear of leaving u ... dont stay with him if the only thing he cares about is to have sex with u ..
2007-06-25 00:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you comfortable with him having sex with other people? if so, then maybe it isn't such a big deal. however if you expect him to stop having sex altogether just because you aren't into it, that is probably asking too much, and he will probably lose interest or cheat on you. it's not pleasant but it's the truth.
2007-06-25 00:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy only likes your virginity, NEVER SLEEP WITH HIM. i'm not saying that he will leave you or anything, but he MIGHT leave you after having sex w/ him.
2007-06-25 00:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by mcr girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was going to leave you, he wouldn't do it without trying his best to convince you beforehand. The more he pressures you, the more likely it is that he'll leave you if you refuse.
2007-06-25 00:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he leaves you, then you know he was just after your body. Don't give it up until you are ready!
Good luck!
2007-06-25 00:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he leaves you because of spmething like this i suggest you better off...
2007-06-25 00:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by Mercia L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he does love you, sex won't be an issue.
2007-06-25 00:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by Ariel L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋