My fiancee of 18 months had a 9 year affair during his 16 year marriage. The 16 year marriage ended 13 years ago, so alot of time has gone by.. We met 3 1/2 years ago and have been engaged for 18 months. I moved in last month for our wedding scheduled in 4 weeks. I found out that he has the name/number of the ex-mistress in his cell phone (speed dial list). Upon confronting, he provided 1 year of cell phone records that didn't show any contact from him or from her. He says that he hasn't cheated or seen her and that he's committed to me and that he just never deleted the number. With no contact, by such a toxic relationship with her in the past, could anyone out there give him a true benefit of doubt that this is a future problem I'll have to encounter in a few years?
2007-06-25
00:02:20
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