Look its been like 1month me and gf broke up due to some reasons. Since than i guess she called me about 10times and i rang her less because dont wantto see her or talk with her not because i want to broke up, she wanted to as well and really hurted me alot to leave her. she call me as friend and sometimes i ignore her calls anyway her dad came from china to Australia to see her, asked me before if i can go with them to MT Buller which is snow place for couple days then after that somewhere else and i gave her some execuses cant go because i dont want to.Although im wondering why she would ask me to go with them especailly her dad there too and overall it doesnt mean she want me back im sure if she wanted, she could have asked me ages. Just thinking why...why ..why
2007-06-24 23:50:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
still developing my english skills.Sorry im not good in english so just trying understand what i said
2007-06-24 23:51:28 · update #1
her friend going too so 3 people, her, friend and dad but im thinking why old bf lol. I hate her lol
2007-06-25 00:02:47 · update #2
Yes i want to be her lover again but i dont want to get close her again unless if she want and im sure she likes talking with me even though i dont show interest talking on phone but yeh.
2007-06-25 00:24:21 · update #3
Okay this might be why....
I think she is not really sure what she wants. She said she doesn'twant to be in the relationship either, but she misses your company.
But what I think is more important is what do YOU want?
Ask yourself this:
1) Do you want to be with her as lovers? Then speak to her openly about you feelings - if she doesn't want that then don't go on this holiday as it might be painful.
2) Do you want to be friends? Then try and figure out whether her invitation is genuine and you both have the same idea about that (take in consideration it might be hard if one of you falls in love with someone else).
3) Do you still want to hang out with her? Do you miss her?
Whatever you decide, take in consideration your own feelings, but also hers.
For the rest, it might not be as complicated - and just fun.
Good luck!
2007-06-25 00:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by DesmoDutchy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may just want to have a friend with her to enjoy the vacation.
2007-06-24 23:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋