I live in a big family and i'm the youngest. Half of my brothers and sisters live abroad, i barely see them from year to year and that would be for a couple of weeks. I'll be next and i will leave my home to start university. We r so close and we tell each other everything. Now i'm leaving for a month and i miss my sisters already! My family r my best friends, never trusted someone the way i trust them. Now, how can you over come such an issue, how can you stop crying each time you hear one their names, how can you imagine yourself not remembering the last time you were all gathered on a dinner table, how can you live with barely knowing the news of your most loved ones, how can you survive the missing and the pain of not seeing them? i just need a way to be able to live through knowing that this is the best thing for all.
2007-06-24 21:41:46 · 11 answers · asked by Lena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nowadays, it is easy to keep in touch!
I live abroad but I still know everything about what's going on for my friends and family back home.
It will be hard, and you will be sad, but eventually you'll be fine!
I'm not sure this is very healthy to feel like that to be honest.
You need to build your own life. You can stay close to them, but you have to be able to live on your own as well.
And then when you see them again, you really enjoy it! =)
2007-06-24 21:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The majority of all the families in the world go thru this--kids all leave for school or work or married life---it is called empty nest syndrome. If there is a name for it--it must happen a lot. So see this as a rite of passage--you are growing up and it is time to move on. Take the time to write a real letter once a month to each family member---keep it happy and full of news about you--and hope they have time to answer your letters--that should be a good start.Take pictures with you, too. I doubt that school will leave you much time to be home sick--new friends--new places--tough courses---don't go unless you are ready for this--coming home because you wimped out will be a big expense and a waste of time.... maybe wait a year or two. Good luck
2007-06-24 21:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will get easier, I live in Romania while all my family and friends live in the US. It is hard but it does get easier. I have a myspace page that I add blogs to and pics for my family to see my kids and our home. I also have skype and yahoo messenger with a microphone so I can IM or talk with them whenever the time change allow. I keep in touch with them so I do not feel as if I have left them, they are still apart of my life and I still know all the news and all the gossip. You could also get a webcam and be able to see them if you need to. That could be a wonderful gift for the holidays from you would be webcams for you family. Good Luck
2007-06-24 21:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by Petra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-19 22:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by beckie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people always miss the ones that are closest to you. I 'm in a long distance relationship for one year. I am on a brink of ruinly my relationship because of insecurites and fear of neglection. However you have a family which is always with you even in your blood. you should take the chance to find your life outside and pick up hobbies to easy your mind. You have memories, but let those memories be for good and pain.
2007-06-24 21:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stay in touch by emailing them or calling them at least once a week. Dont drift away because its hard to get a family relationship back up if it drifted.
2007-06-24 21:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get there contacts call and mail them on daily basis ,and also very important,get some one who will love you like a brother ,and believe it, life must go on (after all a girl leaves her family and goes to another family in the name of marriage) goodluck.
2007-06-24 21:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by Silvia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, that is part of life. Just keep in touch. I know the feeling, my daughter moved away, and I barely she her and her children. It hurts, but I just try to stay in touch as much as possible.
2007-06-24 21:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will need sometime to get used to it;but beleive me u will.Try to do your favorite things till then like reading taking walks; drawing -----
2007-06-24 21:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by t m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-24 21:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by raghawender2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋