2007-06-24 21:12:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
OK I'm not a juvenile, only a kid at heart. I have 3 kids already, know how much they cost and can afford to have more and support them quite well LA is my Fiancee getting married in Feb 08 not one of you girls have come up with a clever idea worthy of the 10 points, somebody out there make me laugh, I hope my stupid question made you laugh, how serious could I really be?
2007-06-24 21:39:59 · update #1
OK I'm not a juvenile, only a kid at heart. I have 3 kids already, know how much they cost and can afford to have more and support them quite well LA is my Fiancee getting married in Feb 08 not one of you girls have come up with a clever idea worthy of the 10 points, somebody out there make me laugh, I hope my stupid question made you laugh, how serious could I really be?
2007-06-24 21:41:43 · update #2
Hide her pills and bust out the super sperm??
haha.
too bad they dont make a laser you could just zap her with to knock her up... then it would be futile to resist you!
2007-06-25 09:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by oxymoroncolleen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to impregnant a girl. That tells me that you're probably young or underage and you're looking to build up your self esteem by being able to brag that you're fertile, that you've knocked someone up, that you've got so many kids already, or that you are mature enough to raise a kid.
Wrong path to take, buddy.
How can you get this "girl" to "let" you impregnate her? When you are old enough to provide for both her and the baby for the rest of their lives, start dating her. When you've been together a few years, propose. Then get married. After a couple of years, start analyzing if you are in a tenable financial position to start a family. Then and only then start a family.
In the meantime, I suggest you volunteer a few hours a week at your town's youth services center, specifically helping out with the teen parents. After a month or two of watching teen moms struggle to raise a baby when they are barely past babyhood themselves, trying to finish their high school education so that they can find a job that pays better than minimum to support themselves and their baby, looking for housing they can afford or living with parents that either look down on them for getting pregnant or tell them how to raise their baby every moment of the day, and trying to keep their identity as their entire day is spent working at a sucky job, caring for a baby, and NOT hanging out with friends at the mall having fun, THEN see if you still want to impregnate that girl.
2007-06-25 04:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my partner nearly 7 years.
We've been living together for 2 years, engaged for a year now.
We've only just taken the plunge and decided to get married/have children (whichever came first) I fell pregnant and have been getting very excited with my fiance.
We spoke about this subject for over a year before going for it and I think its a decision you have to seriously make after time.
If you've been with this girl a long time and you're sure she's the one you want this sort of commitment with (once you have a baby with someone, you're attached to them in some way for at least the next 18 years) then talk to her about it.
Otherwise, I'd say leave it for at least three years together, then discuss your future and your options.
don't go pushing her though a she could end up feeling a though you're trying to force her into a decision, and you could end up pushing her away.
2007-06-25 04:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Loulla 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cripes, I dont know what to say to that one, its unusual to say the least usually its a desperate idiotic girl who purposly falls pregnant to keep a guy, not the other way around.
If you really want to start a family NOW and she doesnt, then perhaps you need to wait until shes ready, or find someone else who is as keen as you are.
if she is really not wanting a baby right now, and you do get her pregnant on purpose without her knowledge (there are many ways of how to do this, but Im not telling you!) then your relationship will be doomed.... is this what you want? do you want to have a child you see on weekends? as chances are if she does get pregnant, and ever finds out what happened your relationship will no longer exist.
2007-06-25 04:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by Dani 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bringing a child into the world is something you all should seriously talk about and not just get her pregnant like its not big deal pregnancy is not easy neither is raising a child..I would have a talk about it before you do decide to get her pregnant
2007-06-25 04:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by Meredith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date for 3 yrs, propose, have a year long engagement, get married, then wait 2 more years to ask for a kid
2007-06-25 04:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by Avodah 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
all i know is if i was getting married in feb 08, i wouldn't want to be prego now. it's all about looking good in that dress, not just for you but for everyone else also.
2007-06-25 05:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by chosen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Takes $100,000+ to raise a kid to maturity. How are you going to support that? Pregnancy leads to having children, are you prepared to raise them? It's not all fun and games.
2007-06-25 04:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, I wish I would know LA and tell her! how can you think of something so valuable like making something pregnant without her knowing?
One advise: Visit a Psychiatrist
2007-06-25 04:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♡Dreamer♥♡ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait untill after the wedding fool.
2007-06-25 06:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by LA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋