If theres a will there is a way?

Question

I dont understand that saying. I have been trying to get pregnant for way to long with no result I definently have the will but is there any way? I have been trying to get pregnant for 3 yrs now and until two and 1/2 months ago I finally went to my obgyn to find out whats wrong. He has me doing my basal temps till the 3rd month then im going to have some tests done. I think its cause of blocked tubes I had gonnerea when i was 16 now im 21. But now im really sick with flu like symptoms my boobs are really sore and my periods was on time. Does this sound like an ectopic pregnancy. The docs not going to see me for another 3 weeks (cheap doctor) I took a pregnancy test 4 days before my period at a hospital and it was neg. Please give me advice on whether i might have flu, bronchidis or what? also im always tired and always feel like crap has anyone had similar experiences? thankx

Answer 1

I think you are finding your way now by going to see a doctor and finding out how to chart your cycles so that you can make sure that you are timing things right. If you had an ectopic pregnancy then you shouldn't get your period and a pregnancy test would be positive, so you probably just had a virus.

If you are always tired and feeling bad, I wonder if maybe you have some depression? Trying for a baby for 3 years can take a real toll on you. When you go to see your doctor, please talk to him/her about it and see if you need to be evaluated for depression.

Don't forget that when you are being evaluated to get pregnant that your husband needs to be checked as well, since half the problems with infertility are related to the man. I hope that you feel better soon and I hope the doctors can help you find a way to get pregnant! Good luck to you!

Answer 2

If your boobs are sore and your period is on time, that sounds like PMS. You can have flu if your body aches. Do you have a fever? If you always feel tired, you need to figure out what that is. I'd suggest seeing a doctor, but also taking vitamins and eat healthy foods in the meantime. If your tubes are blocked, they can operate on them or implant a fertilized egg if need be. However, really, you should work on why you feel sick and tired first. Also, are you married? Is your husband sick? Because maybe there's some mold in your house or something and you should look into that, too.