What would you do if you felt like your husband paid more attention to his female friends than you.?

Question

Text messages constantly!

Answer 1

Call him on it...my husband would never disrespect me like that by texting another girl!

Answer 2

If he has to text message his female friends constantly then something should be going off in your head by now that he's cheating with one of them and it's going on in front of your face. No man has to talk to a female by text unless that he does not want anyone to hear his conversation and he's a married man. Why can't you be his best friend? Why can't he talk to you that way? And why in the hell you are letting this go on and you are trying to find out what's going on? One day when he's in the shower check his messages and see what he's been writing or call you cell phone company and ask them is there any way you can get a copy of any/all text messages that was sent in (give date) it should not be a problem and they should be able to pull it up and mail it. When or if they can do it and mail it make sure you get the mail. If he is cheating you kick his *** out and tell him that the next time he think he can get away with it in front your face try something a little smarter than texts. You deserve so much than he could give you and that's an honest man, faithful, and truthful man and that's not him.

Answer 3

Has he always been this way? If so, then that should have been considered going into the marriage. If not, then create some excitement and mystery, since things must be a little routine. Start up a dance class, or something that gets you excited. Keep busy with friends, and new activities. All of the new energy will feed into the relationship or let you know where you stand.

Answer 4

i would tell him how you feel. i don't think that men should have just female friends unless this is couple friends this is just asking for something to happen or someone to get jealous. i would not be okay at all with my husband text messaging a woman all the time. does he let you read them if you ask. if not than there is definitly something going on. no one hides something if they are not guilty. so you just need to tell him that your feeling uncomfortable and that this needs to change, now!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

You might want to take a look at these text messages. Are you sure they are just friends?

Answer 6

I will ask him to look at my finger where the wedding ring is located,then I will ask him what is my last name and if this doesn't get his attention I will tell him that it doesn't matter if the cell phone is not mine but I will take it off from his hand. It's not proper to talk to woman esp. texting her if this is not his wife...

Answer 7

i belive you should talk to him and ask him why he does that also ask him who he belives is most important his friends or you. that will put him in the spot light and make him think. talking to him about it would help a little because if you never do than he will never know it bothers you and than things could probably go better for the both of you. good luck.

Answer 8

you better start struting ya stuff in some pumps lol no get his attention become your husband bestfriend because he is 1 cheating on you which i doubt or 2 talking about stuff he feels he can't talk to you about. if that doesn't work get the red pumps and fishnet stockings that will get his attention

Answer 9

That is infidelity. He is cheating on you. He is totally disrespecting you. Tell him to knock it off, he is a married man. Don't put up with it.

Answer 10

Something is not right. He would stop or I would leave. One of the two.