I want my daughter to have low self esteem and to never accomplish anything other than being a faithful housewife, as this is recommended by our religion.
What is the best way to parent her so this happens? She is 4 years old now.
Sorry my english is bad.
2007-06-24 16:24:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Just continue being the assh*le you are? Better idea for ya though. Don't.
2007-06-24 16:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
Just exactly what is your angle? Now let's get down to the nitty gritty shall we, no more beating around the bush. You have no idea what it means to be faithful and or obedient, cause if you had any hankering as to what it is you would never ever on your last breath ask how your daughter can aquire low-self esteem. Before I give you the secret to that I have something else I want to say to you. Knock it off pops, your English is good and you know it. Knock off that religion bit too, cause that is as old as four day old stale bread.
My answer to you is having you for a "daddy" will indeed bring her self esteem down so low that she'll literally have to reach up five feet to scratch a snakes belly.
2007-06-25 01:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your implication that most people would react favorably to your question, is ludicrous. The intentions you have are a form of mental abuse, which should make you seriously consider whether you want your daughter to grow up in the manner you are suggesting. She can be a good wife, housewife and mother without being reduced to subservience. Raise her to love and respect you as a parent. Set a good example for her. This will go further in preparing her for adulthood than treating her like an animal.
2007-06-24 23:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by Darke Angel 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
So, when you're shittin' all over other people's questions, your English is fine. But when you're trying to bait people on this part of Y!A, you all of a sudden try to be someone from another country who likes to beat his (imaginary) woman.
I've seen only a handful of "questions" like yours and I'm already bored and unimpressed by your lack of imagination.
2007-06-25 02:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by HMLB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about your religion, and why they would want to crush someone's buoyant spirit into someone who doesn't want to do anything other than cook and clean.
Do you want to cook and clean for your lifestyle? Doesn't sound like it's much fun, does it? Why shouldn't a daughter be as proud, as accomplished as a son?
I would suggest re-interpreting your religion in a slightly different way. If you are raising your daughter in North America, or any like-minded place, I would expect you will have problems controlling her in about 10 years or so because of what she will learn of the way women are treated in these sorts of cultures.
No assault meant on your beliefs, but we're in a different minded culture here. We generally believe that everyone should be free and proud of who they are, and what they do.
Good luck getting advice here.
2007-06-24 23:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by sir_waffleking 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Your best way is to avoid doing this. I have some friends who grew up in traditional religious households, and now suffer from either inflated egos or depression, sometimes both. If you want this, you do not deserve to be a parent.
2007-06-25 00:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by the_crying_queen 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You know the best thing about women?
No matter how hard a man tries to keep us down , we continue to move forward.. not by ourselves, but as a whole. No matter how hard you tried to keep your daughter from blossoming into a strong woman, you wouldn't be able to. Even if she was 85 years old, she would some day come to her own decision as to her purpose here on the great Earth.
Women don't back down. We don't crawl away. We spread our wings and fly, and no one, no words, NO THING can keep us down!!
I pray for you and your lonely soul
2007-06-24 23:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by Kate T 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
You disgusting parent...Don't you know that no woman is ever really happy doing JUST housework unless they choose it because it makes them truly happy. She will be bloody miserable and it will all only bite you in the a** later.
2007-06-24 23:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Jade Green 1 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Teach her religion from an early age and if she thinks that your religious practise is right then she should just abide and be a slave.
2007-06-24 23:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
sorry to say, which religion you belong to, says that I'm Hindu,
my religion says that the more you respect woman the
goddess of wealth will be more happily showing wealth
in your house. who knows that child will teat you, as you
going to do to her.
2007-06-25 03:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋