why r people so mean i've dealt with being treated like a loser a nobody an outsider al my life even by my own family i have no friends and dont know whats keeping me from doing myself in
2007-06-24 16:21:16 · 9 answers · asked by truckerjeff123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why do you care what other people think of you? I don't need anyone to tell me that they like me or that I'm special to them. I'm sure there are plenty of people who think I'm a loser too but I could really care less. The majority of people who look down on you are just dealing with self esteem issues themselves. So why would you let that get to you? Lifes what you make of it. If you don't have any friends...start going out more. I'm sure you'd be able to find someone who has something in common with you.
2007-06-24 16:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by Arcangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is no reason to do yourself in...... Have ya tried making friends or do you just assume that they will not like you.. Cause if ya need a friend I'll be your friend You wouldn't want to blow your head off life is to precious for something like that. have ya tried getting help I mean professional help. Why should you care what people think about you and what they say about you Maybe you should just worry about you and not what other people are saying or how they are treating you. The only thing that is keeping you from doing yourself in is you because you don't wanna do something that stupid. I don't know you but I know you're NOT a nobody or a loser. there are friedns out there ya just have to find the right ones I'm one of them......
2007-06-24 16:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by LUCKY7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so depressed that you are suicidal you need more help than anyone around here can give you. You need to see someone about therapy and medication management. Talk to a parent, a friends parent, a counselor, a clergy member or whoever you feel like you can trust to try to get you into some kind of help.
There is a lot to live for. You're young and everything seems like it's so hard right now. It's like that for a lot of people. Good luck getting the help you need and deserve.
2007-06-24 16:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by avalanchefan95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason you should not blow your head off is easy, first i hope you believe that there is a God, then if you do let me remind you that He gave His life for you. He died on a cross for you so you wouldn't have to die for your own sins. That means He loved you so MUCH that He did this for you. Second, you are not a loser because God doesn't make mistakes. Third the devil loves to make us feel like we are a nothing, a nobody, and tells us this stuff to make us feel bad about ourselves, cause when he can do this he has you and trust me you don't want to spend eternity in hell with the devil, Heaven is going to be much sweeter. So i suggest you find a good ol' preacher man where ever you live, and ask them to talk to you and help you. i go to the Assembly of God church in a small town, these people will pray for you , with you, and help you to feel loved again, they will encourage you, uplift you, be there for you. These type of people really do exist, you just have to make the first step. so please i ask you one favor, find one of these places and seek help. i hope i have helped you in some way. I will pray for you.
2007-06-24 16:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by missjim1994 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope your not being serious about this. We have all felt like crab at times. Last October I was in a real bad citation and felt like my life had no meaning but I got through it and now I have someone so amazing in my life that I live for this little person. Your life has meaning you just have to find your purpose Read the Secret you will see a difference in your life. I takes lots of work to get of the rut but we all have to take responsibility for all of our choices. hang in there there things will change and you will feel better it just feels like your life is bad and circumstances are bad but things change but you must really want things to change and be very positive. your life is a gift from God I hope you believe in God. Pray a lot
2007-06-24 16:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so change it all. What makes you an outsider? Change it. Why don't you have any friends? Change it. You wouldn't take the time to ask yahoo answers if you really wanted to end it all. You are the only one that can fix your problems. Do it!
2007-06-24 16:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by babidoozer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it, i've dealt with alot of mean people in my life too, but i havent wanted to do that. please dont do it you are a person and deserve to be treated better than that!!!!
2007-06-24 17:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sould call to get help and to talk with someone. don't do something like that.
2007-06-24 16:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by plocsgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is the beauty of life!!
2007-06-25 03:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by Meg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋