When I was in highschool, myself and some of our friends went swimming at Little miss' house, We all would have been about 17 or 16. I call her little miss because she's a :) not nice person.
One of our friends left her school dress at her house. Our friend who forgot her dress had a nice curvy body.
Little miss showed her parents the dress our friend had left at her house. Her mother and little miss stood in our friends dress at the same time and were making fun of how big she was.
Correct me if I'm wrong but do adults really act like that? Little miss told me what happened and I was in shock. This was about 4 years ago.
But would you act like this as an adult, let alone let your child see you acting like that?
I thought adults acted with a bit of respect and didn't bad mouth people especially bad mouth teenagers.
Grr, angry now. How I dislike that family. Bunch of snobs. Even her brother said something about me not being as well off as them.
2007-06-24 14:56:00 · 22 answers · asked by Miss*Blue 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yeah, she definitely is a former friend. I actually just call her this person I knew, when I look back, she was never really a good friend
2007-06-24 15:04:55 · update #1
Glad you rose above them. No,I wouldn't do that. But the other day noticed the mom and her kids behind me in a drive through all making fun of me. That was particularly fun since I'm 40. They were making fun of my vehicle. People like that are just insecure and they've got to make fun of people to get through their day in their little insignificant lives. My daughter knows we don't make fun of ANYONE,period,she knows this,and she's only six. People teach their children empathy,or they don't. I guess I've got more empathy than most,because I was always the kid that got picked on,so,perhaps I try harder to teach my child respect,not only for other kids,but adults as well...
2007-06-24 15:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No that wasnt right to do and any parent that does that, does not have any respect for anyone, and as i am concerned ( being a parent myself ) is not rasing their child right!!
I would not be friends with someone like that and my belief is no matter what size you are, no matter what color you are, No matter how tall, short, rich, poor..ect.. We are all the same but some parents do not see it like this and i am actually going through something like this with a little girl that my daughter goes to school with.. they ride the bus together and her parents have money and they think they are better so their daughter tries to make fun of mine and i have called the principal on this and they have dragged her in a few times but nothing in until i called the parents myself!! Now it has gotten better.. until next year..
Dont bother with people like that.. they are never better than us
2007-06-24 15:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, as an adult, I am 55, a LOT of people are very insecure about who and what they are. So the compromise their insecurities by owning the big house, driving the big truck, wearing a lot of jewelry, ect. They are saying to everyone else; look at me, I am more important than you. Because they, inside, feel very unimportant.
People who are NOT insecure about themselves are people who feel relaxed to come up to, to talk to. They ONLY ask for a moment of your time, and nothing else. They never want anything from you other than a smile, a handshake, a laugh, a hug would be nice...
Insecure people are always asking for HELP to do something, HELP with their financial problems, waiting to show you that they are better than you with a big tv, etc.
2007-06-24 15:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Harsh reality, kid.
Adults don't always do and say what is right.
In fact, many adults are as sholes.
You are correct to be dismayed at their conduct. Hopefully, the morals and ideals that are with you now, in the purity and innocence of your childhood, will not erode as you get older.
Those "adults" that laughed at an overweight child are just insecure and unhappy with their lives. Good for you for recognizing that.
2007-06-24 15:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by Superfudge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bunch of jerks to me. People need to grow up! Especially ADULTS! Does it really matter that much to somebody how much somebody weighs or how big somebody is. GRR!
2007-06-24 15:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You realize, as you become older, money does not buy morals, class or maturity. These people obviously lack in all areas. Best not to give them the dignity of being in your thoughts. Not all people with "money" are as arrogant and self centered as these people. Sometimes I think people don't feel good about themselves and try to bring people in on their hurt.
As people get older and don't have to fit in like they do in high school, they will no longer have to be friends with or put up with these people.
2007-06-24 15:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by Sharon L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, adults acting like kids is a very common thing. you should see how petty some women get in the workplace...God help you if you are prettier than them or dress better-even when they let themselves completely go they still hate others.
Sad, unevolved, unintelligent adults.
2007-06-24 14:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sounds like an adult who still thinks she's a teenager.
2007-06-24 15:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by Fabulous Person 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear you on each and every point that I have read. Its not funny. The weight issue in America is getting totally out of hand! I mean, its like everyone is soo focused on it! I dont know whats going on!
2007-06-24 14:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♫i luv♥♫juicy fruit♥♫gum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not the sort of people I'd want to spend any time with.
I believe what goes around comes around. Someone will do some very unkind things to them.
2007-06-24 14:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋