I've recently realised that I'm not a very sexual person, with guys or girls. I like both, but... sex just doesn't come into it that much. And, especially in the lesbian/bi community, everyone I meet seems to have sex on their mind a lot.
Having sex with either a guy or a girl seems equally distasteful to me, although kissing is fun and so is cuddling and just being a person you really care about.
Is that normal??
2007-06-24 14:52:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yup perfectly normal. Everyone is different.
Heck give it another five to ten years and it might be a completely different story.
2007-06-24 14:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not very sexual either. I have desire though. Don't buy into that new stupid crap about asexuality being a new sexual orientation. Everyone goes through a phase of having a low sex drive, and some people are just that way due to nuture.
In our still purtanical world it's common to not have sex for long periods of time. I seriously think that if we weren't such prudes still (especially in America) you wouldn't hear so much about 20, 30, 40, and even older-virgins.
2007-06-24 15:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more normal than most people are willing to admit. Enjoy the level of sexuality that you're comfortable with and don't let anyone pressure you into thinking you HAVE to be doing more.
2007-06-24 15:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its how you feel, then yes, its normal to you.
My girlfriend isn't very sexual, and i'm fine with that.
You just need to meet someone that will respect you, and your desires to not be very sexual. If they really care about you, it won't matter to them.
2007-06-24 14:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Szuch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't very sexually motivated until I feel in love and then it was on..I think you just haven't met the right person yet.Love makes sex so great.
2007-06-24 15:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by little3nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not 'normal' as in 'common' but there's nothing wrong with it either. You just need to find someone who matches your libido.
2007-06-24 14:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you're just fine, as you described yourself. :)
Everyone's got a different speed.
2007-06-24 14:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. There's nothing wrong with you.
2007-06-24 14:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its perfectly normal. i am in a relationship with a girl like that and i think it makes the relationship better in a sense.
2007-06-24 15:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds normal. Each person has their own tastes, preferences, etc.
2007-06-24 15:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by J9 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋