Okay, I'm only sixteen, so maybe I don't know exactly what love is yet. But i've never felt this way before... When I'm with him, I'm giddy and fun and I like how I am. And he always makes me laugh so hard.
I feel like he might like me too, but he's 4 years older than me. Am I stupid for thinking I have a chance?
2007-06-24 13:34:13 · 10 answers · asked by patriceisadork 2 in Computers & Internet ➔ Hardware ➔ Other - Hardware
No you are not stupid. You probably have a crush on him and that's it.
2007-06-24 13:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by clau_kool_lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have to keep in mind that you are a minor and he is not. not to say that you shouldn't take a chance, but keep it in mind. you aren't stupid for thinking it. as you get older the years don't matter much. 4 years may only make a difference in what music you listened to as kids. it may be a good idea to wait some times and see if it is actually him that you like, or just s little crush. if it has been a while, take a brake from him and see if you can handle it. if not, think harder about how to advance the relationship just a bit. nothing innapropriate. good luck.
2007-06-24 20:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by * 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16, 4 years is like a century. you both have very different experiences, plus, with todays severe crackdown on men dating girls under 18, he risks his entire life.
Either you wait, or date boys your own age (yes, as you age, and get to be 18, messing with any boy under 18 can ruin your life!) Not fair, and fairly stupid laws exist, and we can't change them immediately. So we have to live with the stupid laws...
what is the most responsible thing you could do to prove you are becoming an adult woman?
2007-06-24 22:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't stupid at all! Wrong section...I doubt any of these computer dorks will know anything about computers...but I do. haha (I am a computer dork)
Have fun with the guy, enjoy his ability to make you laugh, but know that you are too young for him. Funny how it works, in a few years, that four year difference will mean nothing...but for now...it does!
Something to consider!
2007-06-24 20:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Coffee Drinker of Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it's called wrong category, and child molestation.
your 16, a child
hes 20, an adult
get teh picture?
2007-06-24 20:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by NoOneButMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything you feel now is going to change. i know you think it won't but it will.
guys older than you now want one thing, and you know what it is.
when you get a little older (like in your middle twenties) you'll be able to handle the differences in experience. now you're just not ready.
2007-06-24 20:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by tigerkitty2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four years is a big differnce at this age. There is some out there thoguth
2007-06-24 20:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by King 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur stupid 4 posting this in the computer section
2007-06-24 20:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.but just make sure u do the right thing
2007-06-24 21:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really talk to your brother if you have his blessings then go for it
2007-06-24 20:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by mommy Ty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋