Me and my boyfriend made a really stupid mistake of doing it without a condom and we both regret it, so please don't tell me how stupid we were because I already know.
We were in the shower, and he didn't ejaculate, I stopped because I felt uncomfortable before he ejaculated. My last period was May 22nd and this happened June 4th. I haven't gotten my period yet, it's been 32 days.
What are signs of pregnancy? I'm not nauseas or any of those common signs. And when should I take a test? Don't tell me to go to the doctors because I can't let my parents know about this. Is it too early for me to be worried? I really want to be sure I'm not pregnant, I'm scared for my life.
I've learned my lesson and me and boyfriend decided on not having sex for a while. I'm terrified and I can't stop thinking about this. Someone please help ):
2007-06-24 12:25:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you can go to planned parenthood and take a free pregnancy test or just buy one. If you are scared about your parents finding the test then maybe you should take it at your boyfriends house and make sure it gets thrown in the trash, outside in the dumpster. I didn't get any symptoms until i was almost three months pregnant. you might have just missed a period but you won't know until you take the pregnancy test. but you should calm down, unless you are way too young to be having intercourse.
2007-06-24 12:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by z_girl159 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I won't lecture you because it's easy to make mistakes, but yes, you CAN become pregnant from precum. All semen contains some sperm and can therefore impregnate you. Even if he had some on his hands and was just messing with you, you could get pregnant still. There's an even bigger chance if you actually had sex.
As for pregnancy signs, it varies from woman to woman. Early signs of pregnancy can include breast tenderness/swelling, nausea, fatigue, dizziness, and absence of a menstrual period. None or all of these might happen to you. As for your late period, there can be a lot of different explanations for it. Stress can cause lateness or you might be too young to be on a regular cycle.
If telling your parents isn't an option, you can always do a home test. They can cost between 7-15 dollars and you can pick one up at pretty much any grocery or department store in the pharmacy section. If you can't afford that, go to Planned Parenthood. They do pregnancy tests on a sliding fee scale. If you have a Birthright in your area, they do free pregnancy testing.
Good luck to you.
2007-06-24 12:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Evelyn's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can get pregnant off of precum, one sperm (if strong enough) can do the job. If you have money than get a pregnancy test at the store or go to a pregnancy center and have a test done, those are confidential and your parents won't find out, although you do need to tell them that is your call.
There are many signs of pregnancy and everyone varies from person to person. Most signs get confused with menstrual symptoms.
You may be come nauseated or you can have sore and swollen breasts (nothing dramatic), you could experience more headaches (this is from the hormonal imbalance occurring). You could feel happy or sad for no reason. Constipation or diarrhea is also common, you may have to go to the bathroom more (urinating) and nipples get darker. You may also notice something called a pregnancy mask. Most women experience brown dots on their face in the second trimester but I saw this in the first few weeks.
Also, an extremely light period with mild cramping can occur, this is called implantation bleeding.
Good Luck!
2007-06-24 12:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Nisi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh Dear.......If you have missed the first day of the period that was supposed to come, then take a Pregnancy test honey. You need to get one and take it with your first morning pee. This has the most build up of hormones. If this is the first time you've been late.....well you could very well be pregnant. Yes, precum contains sperm. If you are...please tell your parents right away. Yes, they may be angry, but they need to know, and they will help you. As far as signs of pregnancy....do you have a back-ache, tender breasts, or are you hungry more often, or even wanting something to eat really bad that you haven't had in a really long time?? I know it sounds early for that, but it can happen.
Good Luck
Momma P
May Angels Walk Beside You
2007-06-24 12:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by Momma P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, it is possible to get pregnant but with you worrying about it stresses your body out which can cause pregnancy like symptoms. I would wait for almost a mont before I took the hpt if I were you. Some signs of pregnancy are tired, peeing a lot, pain in the stomach, nauseas, tender breasts, changes in your skin, hair (like breakouts and oily hair).
2007-06-24 12:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by Ducky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to stop stressing your period can be off just from stress
but yes u can definatly get pregnant from precum
i know 5 friends that did
i know 10 that got pregnant with condoms (only 85% effective read the wrapper lol)
i dunno my sis got pregnant at 17 and didnt tell my rents till she was 6 months she was in denial it so stupid cuz when she told them they didnt freak out or anything and my neice is 8 now and obvisioly everythings fine
if u are pregnant tell ur rents
sounds like u could be go get a test u can get them anywhere get a two pack and take one in a week then if it comes back negative wait 2--3 weeks an take another
best of luck
2007-06-24 12:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tink 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, hugs to you! Yes, you can get pregnant from pre-*** because it does contain sperm. It's rare, but possible. I suggest you take a pregnancy test. You can buy one pretty descreetly at Walmart. Just use the self-check-outs.
Otherwise, the stress of the situation could also play a factor in haulting your period.
Best wishes to you!
2007-06-24 12:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by cottagemama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes precum still has sperm swimming around in it so yes you can still get pregnant. You can take a pregnancy test anytime from the day after your missed period. Try not to stress over it as stress can delay your period. Signs of pregnancy are sore/tender boobs, sickness, going off certain foods. Some women get a funny taste in there mouth.. a metalic taste. Personally i had pins and needle's in my nose!! If you are pregnant go to the doctors THEY'RE NOT ALLOWED TO TELL YOUR PARENTS or go to your local youth advice whatever you decide to do they'l help you x
2007-06-24 12:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ honeypie ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Dear friend, You can get support and information at a pregnancy resource center, which you can find through optionline on the net, or call 1800afamily. Please take good care of yourself and your family if you are pregnant. Please stop trying to find a way around what will happen if you continue sex, or even tempt yourself by being alone with a boy. You will get pregnant or a disease if you continue.
Sincerely, Runner
2007-06-28 08:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all a calm down! you need to go to a drug store and buy a pregnancy test. from there you can figure out what to do. i am sure you will be fine and if not sometimes you can be surprised at how understanding your parents can be and they may really help you in this sort of situation. trust me i know i just had a medical abortion 2 days ago. good luck
2007-06-24 12:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by ashley b 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋