pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeas help me
2007-06-24 12:17:56 · 32 answers · asked by Katelyn Brown 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
and hurry with the answers i am 4 weeks from giving birth hurry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2007-06-24 12:19:34 · update #1
May I suggest adoption
2007-06-24 12:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie Oh! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow sextuplets? That is extremely rare without fertility drugs. I would try and get help from family and friends if you want to keep them. I can remember when I had my first child and when I would have to do it alone, it was stressful. I never knew that a baby required that much work and would allow me that little sleep.
If there is a will and a way you can always make it financially, (help through the state and donations is always possible and also if you know who the father is than GO FOR CHILD SUPPORT) mentally would be a better question to ask. You need to think of your mental health as well and little sleep does a lot to the body.
If you are willing to sacrifice tons of sleep than that is up to you. It won't last that long considering that babies do eventually sleep throughout the night. But if you don't have a good support system than I would just talk to someone and really think about it. You're going to have 6 other lives to think about and with little sleep postpartum depression would be a sure thing.
This is your call, if you think you cannot do it than I would think of adoption if you aren't open to abortion (which I wouldn't recommend anyways).
4 WKS UNTIL YOUR DUE DATE? WHY HAVEN'T THEY INDUCED YOU YET? IF YOU CARRY THE BABIES THE FULL 40 WKS YOU CAN PUT THEIR HEALTH IN JEOPARDY. NO DR. WOULD BE THAT STUPID!
ACTUALLY YOU WOULD'VE HAD A CESARIAN SECTION (C-SECTION) BY NOW, THERE WOULD BE NO WAY IN HELL THAT YOU WOULD BE ABLE TO PUSH ALL THESE KIDS OUT WITHOUT ONE COMING FEET FIRST (BREECH) OR SOME OTHER COMPLICATION.
Think about it a package or diapers or more per day and God knows how much formula inluding dirty bottles to wash and loads of diapers to take to the trash. I don't think you'd want to sit around and smell that. Not trying to discourage you but hey it's a fact if you have tons of children.
2007-06-24 12:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by Nisi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure you are having sextuplets I would contact a bunch of people - Oprah, Martha Stewart, etc...they have lots of that on the show. Also contact your local super market and see if they would make a donation to you...I would also look up your local pregnancy center. More long term I would look into contacting diaper companies, formula companies, etc...and seeing if they would trade supplies for advertising for them if thats something you are interested in.
2007-06-24 12:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Highly doubtful you are pregnant with sextuplets without drugs or anything. So I have to say I don't believe you. If you are broke, get a job.
2007-06-24 12:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, if this is for real....look into adoption! There are so many parents out there wanting to have a baby and can't. Choose the best for the babies, not you. They are what matters, not what you want. There are very open adoptions now where you can stay in contact. Be smart and give your children the best they can have.
2007-06-24 12:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by threecrowleyboys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u cant afford all those babys could u not put them up for adoption even tho it would be really hard also is there not a maternity allowence u can get also iof ur single then maybe ask someone in ur family 2 help u out if they can cause am sure the would
2007-06-24 12:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by mummy of 2gorgeous boys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend, Try Gabriel Project. They may have resources available. Definitely get some resources/support. Sincerely, Runner
2007-06-28 08:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you have close friends or family first have them contact churches in your area. churches always have people willing to help out and they will definitely be able to at the very least provide meals for the first month or so. the mormons (the church of jesus christ of latter day saints) are always really helpful with stuff like that, and the catholics too i think.
second i'd call that daddy and get his butt in gear.
2007-06-24 12:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by carcar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start you up a website with a paypal donation option, post pictures of you while pregnant and then pics of the precious babies after they are born. Call your local news and see if they can report your story. Go to banks and stores and ask them if you can give them donation boxes so that their customers can contribute to you and ur babies. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this by yourself. I will pray for you and your little ones.
2007-06-25 03:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to get on Oprah or some other national talk show....the help seems to come out of the woodwork for those people.
2007-06-24 12:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋