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People have written this many times in lyrics of songs...i am not talking about the pain of the people left behind...i am specifically speaking about pain the person is feeling compaired to feeling none...and if it is painful to end things...please no smart alleck answers i am serious

2007-06-24 10:44:11 · 19 answers · asked by Daisy 6 in Social Science Psychology

i personally have been dealing with this for over 7 years...and feel i have given it quite a bit of time now...i asked the question without needing additional answer but i thank you merlin for your offer

2007-06-24 11:06:06 · update #1

19 answers

as i understand your ques. so according me,suicide! how can we say painless or not without experience it yes we have experience about the pain left behind after successful commit of suicide.
and if we not have love in our life then we think about suicide and love come in life after giving love to someone .
and most of us living the life for ourselves but some of us live the life for others now we think we want to live for us or for others
may be my answer not match your question or may be this is wright answer of your question
depend on your angle of understanding

2007-06-24 17:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by A friend 2 · 0 0

i believe it depends on the psychological state of the person. some personalities develop in such a way that pain is experienced completely differently from what we generally believe it to be

i dont know what you mean with no smart alleck answers

if its physical pain.... it depends what methods are used to take away ones life. drinking rat poison will create extreme amounts of pain...but the suicidal individual may experience the pain as a ending self punishing ritual

psychological pain..... the scope is to end the psychological pain so the suicide is a 'irrational cure to pain' a letting go of all the painful attachment of the world with a fatalistic manner

it depends what perspective you look at it

to a healthy person premature death is usually a painful and disturbing idea

a suicidal reality may be different. suicide is a fragile and complex subject. what is your concern if i may ask? can i help by answering any other questions regarding this subject?

2007-06-24 10:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Zen-Psycholgy Guy 2 · 1 0

Suicide is messy, and painful, and when you get to the point where you want to change your mind, you usually can't. The other side of suicide is the options you cheat yourself out of if you don't succeed. The fact that you were suicidal limits your choices i your career field, and sometimes the damage that you do to yourself limits your choices physiologically. If you succeed, you leave behind you, loved ones who inevitably blame themselves, and friends who for one reason or another, decide that they will try to copy you.

The song, "suicide is painless" written by Johnny Mandel (Music) and Mike Altman (Lyrics) was written with tounge in cheek. Part of the story in the original movie, was of a dentist who decided that his only option was suicide. It's really kind of an interesting story, and despite the obvious comic overtones, the story of how he came out on the other side of that conflict is worth a look. I stuck a link below and there are many others, or you can watch the movie. Hope this helps.

2007-06-24 12:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by MUDD 7 · 1 0

I believe suicidal is physically painful, but to the point where you want to kill yourself- you are so disconnected that it will not be painful emotionally. I was extremely suicidal for a portion of this past year. I always wondered why suicide was viewed as horrible by society- there were groups that came to my high school and middle school, there were fliers people would pass out, hotlines- all for what? I figured that people wanted their loved ones alive for selfish reasons (not to be hurt). In the end, you can not stop suicide from happening by telling someone "you will leave a spiral of pain in your wake, and you will be gone" or "you will go to hell". First of all, being suicidal is hell. Secondly, those people who will recieve pain from your suicide are the ones who didn't care enough to stop it from happening. I took no pity on those people. So emotionally, being actually suicidal is not as difficult as what leads up to it. In order to be suicidal, you have to be proven wrong time and time again. Suicidal thoughts = loss of purpose and loss of relationships. When one is suicidal, they think there are no other options or are not willing to try because of the exhaustion. In the end, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. When you are gone, you are gone. Forever, and unable to get through life, the good stuff at least, even when you want to. Suicide is a terrible decision, but one that takes courage and short-sidedness to pull off.

2007-06-24 11:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by double0bettie 2 · 0 0

~It relies upon on fairly some a number of issues, who's doing it, the tactic, etc. You pay attention of human beings being killed that have died quickly, so i assume some suicides must be painless. of course, the speedier the greater suitable. If someone has desperate to dedicate suicide, there's a reason to maintain on, that person ought to alter their strategies. The asserting is going, do no longer make an eternal decision some non everlasting difficulty. I too think of it could take braveness to take your guy or woman existence. "loopy" is the interest some answer's used. no longer basically the mentally ill take their very own lives. Heaven forbid they could ever be stricken by melancholy or stress and take medicine, and that could classify them as "loopy."~

2016-10-19 00:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by fenn 4 · 0 0

Well I am still alive so cannot tell for sure but I think that suicide is very painful for the person attempting to do it and succeeds.. not only physically but emotionally.
I believe that the only death which is not painful is the natural one: which is during ones sleep.
even though life is a cycle we do not like to end things because we never know what will be coming next or we want to end something thinking it wont come back.... so ending is just a way out of our fears ....
take care of yourself and have a beautiful day....
best regards...

2007-06-24 10:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by nnnn 3 · 0 0

As I contemplated the mistakes that consumed my life, I was in horrible pain. This pain was both physical and mental. I was a wreck. As I started drinking and swallowing pills by the handful, the pain started to fade away. I could see thru the fog of pain. I could see a way to eliminate the pain forever. I drank more and I consumed more handfulls of pills. 12 hours later I awoke with a start. I was strapped down in a hospital bed. My hands were strapped to the bed. I had a tube down my throat, breathing for me. Both arms had IV's in them. I was in excruitating pain, knowing I had been stopped from experiencing the only pain relief I had felt in many years. I still live with the pain but know that I will soon embark on the pain free experience of SUICIDE!!!!!!!

2007-06-24 11:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by sunloverinoregon 2 · 0 0

all I can say is that I would believe the most painless death would be to take an overdoes, all the suicidal person would have to do is to take the tablets, then quietly go in a deep sleep, never to wake up again, but if found the person would suffer by having their stomach pump out.

All the over ways seem painful, hanging, cutting, yourself, throwing yourself of anything would be painful, in a way.

Via hear say, they say once you get over the panic of drowning that is a very peaceful way to go, but I quote, it is only hearsay.

All other options seem painful in different ways, but I'm no expert.

2007-06-24 10:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by lazybird2006 6 · 0 0

No matter is painful or not. Suicide never must be an option. Pain is part of life and part of growing as well as any good or bad feelings. You choose how to feel. One has to give the fight in the inside first.
Acceptance of reality is a good choice. I m in pain, ok this will go . I m in anger ok i feel it but it will end too.

2007-06-24 11:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by nikkita 5 · 0 0

I think that if you are serious about this question that you need to go speak to a therapist right away!
If you are dead, you have NO existence. Feeling pain is normal in life. And things always gets better.

2007-06-24 10:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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