Does anyone else believe...?

Question

That as long as a person is able to forgive, they can get along and be friends with most anyone.

Or that love and passion can exist together, but only in some cases.

Or that if you are passionate about someone or something, you should figure out a way to get that person or thing.

Or that there is more than one person out there for you, you just have to pick which of them you want.

Or that, depending on who you choose, your life can take incredibly different twists and turns, and the outcomes will never be even close to the same then if you had chosen someone else.

Or that each and every action you take during the day, changes something and someone, no matter how small and insignificant the action is.

Hope thats enough questions for you.

As for question three, I don't mean to become a stalker if you want someone. There is a difference in fighting for something you want and .. well.. stalking. :)

Guru, forgiveness does not have to go along with something bad that has happened. It seems that you think that is what I've said.

I've said that if you choose to be a forgiving person, toward anyone and anything they have done, you can get along with them.

Exp. Such things could be as small as taking something of someones without asking, to things as large as forgiving when someone has done you wrong. You may not want to be friends after someone has done you wrong, but you can at least forgive them.

Forgiving is better for the person who has forgiven than for the person who is being forgiven.

Answer 1

U hv clubbed manything in one roll: My answer unrolled:

1. Forgivenes is a noble quality and its is a strength, not a weakness, adopt it

2. Love with passionate people or passionate with loved ones, goes well with reciprocation. U cant love the one who hates u

3.U r combining matter and man instantly on same count. If u mean the 'the desire to possess a thing' or ' the desire to befriend' a person which u term as 'passionate about something or someone' , then YES there is always a way to get that is possible, provided that "someone" should be equally concerned on you! That 'something' could b anything depends on many factors of which the main things that u shd look into are the accessibility and affodability to you!

4. U have the choice, to select the best when u have more than one on anything u desire! Get the best and to this evaluate on merits!

5. Once choosen, never compare n relook n revise estimate, but get along n see how best u can b together to acheive the purpose of union and in all the circumstances give the respect to your partner as he wants him to be fine in your mind! Be cool, polite n gentle and with good will to resolve issues of difference, be honest to hv face to face talk ! U wd find the life is really worth living with the one whom u didnt choose by chance!

6.Yes, all of your action has the effect on others, either desirable or otherwise, but u hv the knowledge and intelleigence to do the right thing in the best interest of you and others na? If not elevate yourself!

7. Always live with a principle or live for a good cause to make your life more meaningful and as well make yourself a better person everyday to be successful all through lif!e!

Answer 2

1. No.... I can be an aquaintence but not a friend because even though I may forgive I will never forget.

2. Love and passion can not exist without one another unless you are speaking passion in a sexual term.

3. No..... you should always try and reach for what you want but you are talking a stalker mode on this one.

4. Yes..... how are we to know the one we have is the one.... it could just be the one right now.... if there wasn't more than one you would be saying that pretty much everyone just settles for what they hope to be the one.

5. Yes.... who, what, when, where and why we choose will always change the outcome of things

6. Yes.... look at question 5..... everything we do in life has an impact on what will happen next.

Answer 3

A forgiving person is only needed if you are planning to do things that need forgiving. You might want to check your motivation for doing things that require forgiveness rather than having an expectation that others should forgive you.

My philosophy: *some* actions are forgivable. Some are not. Choose your actions wisely if you would like to continue to have me in your life.

Answer 4

Too many questions here, PV. I'll tackle the first one. It's easy for most people to forgive, but a basic building block in the foundation of the relationship has been compromised, and things truly cannot be the same after that. Even after forgiveness, there may be an underlying tension because one of the blocks has been removed.

Answer 5

Idealistically, Yes. Unfortunately, those who forgive are shmucks. I dont mean that in a bad way. I am a shmuck and I forgive because thats what we're supposed to do. It still doesnt make you any happier and people dont necessarily like you, they take advantage. Oh well.

Answer 6

Yes, maybe, no (smacks of OCD), maybe, yes, perhaps but not every action, might be easier to write separate questions.

Answer 7

you shouldnt forgive someone unless you wrongly blamed them

Answer 8

yes i belive in all of that

Answer 9

I believe this.