i dont know if its going to go anywhee or not with this guy , we've kissed each other a couple of times at work on the lips and we talk all the time, we take our breaks and our lunchs together. but on the hand my b/f and i broke up a couple of weeks ago we were fighting so much and just couldnt get along, i had just had a miscarriage a month ago today and we havent been right since then with each other, but we already have a two year old, and the guy at work is 45 and im 19 and hes married. so any advice would be nice thanks
2007-06-24 09:08:53 · 6 answers · asked by momma4christopher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont do it it will only cause u more pain in the long run been there before and it turned very ugly between the wife and i just take ur time sweetie and get yourself together and do whats right for you dont rush into another relationship with this guy u need someone that will devote his time to you and ur child and thats the most important thing ur son i know things with ur kids fathers sucks right now but emotionally ur hurting because the lost of the baby he may be to give it time heal and talk to ur boyfriend and i hope all goes well with you and ur family talk ur feeling out with each other and see where it goes good luck with everything when it comes to older men at ur age be careful to big of a gap he is old enough to be ur dad thats not a good idea to date him trust me take care of urself and ur son
2007-06-24 09:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by SHARIKA F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OKAY - re-read your question and thinK REALLY HARD. I think you will see the answer yourself.
HE IS MARRIED!!! 45 YRS OLD OR NOT - HE IS MARRIED!!!!!! PLEASE DO NOT THINK SOOOOOOOOOO LITTLE OF YOURSELF TO SETTLE ON BEING 2ND BEST FOR ANYONE!!!!! If the 45 year old thought of you as soooooooooo special - he would never put you in a position to "wait" for him to not be MARRIED.
You have had a lot to deal with - count the many blessings you have in your life. 1st: you are only 19, with a beautiful gift of a two year old. 2nd: you are smart enough to be asking this question - meaning you know you deserve all of a partner, not just the time away from his WIFE!!
DON'T settle sweetie - the right partner will come along and when they do - you definitley will not need yahoo answers to tell you what to do.
2007-06-24 16:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not ok... HE'S MARRIED!!!! nothing about the age coz im 17 and was with a 32 year old which ended a few weeks ago. but come on, your'e playing with fire here coz the guy at work is married. carrying it on you will develop feelings then fall in love with him, then he will dump you when he's fed up of you or when the wife finds out. so either way you will get hurt. its better to end it now (as you probably dont have feelings for him) than end it later (when somebady has to pick up the pieces of your broken heart.)
2007-06-24 16:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by HMB-100% Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The age would not be a problem for me, but married men are a strict no no. End it now before any real damage is done.
2007-06-24 16:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by Runa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little Momma, Please hon stop you are being tempted by the devil. The married guys actions could cost you your eternal soul ! He is not too old but he is married ! I will pray for him and you to overcome this temptation !
2007-06-24 16:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He either likes you... or he is into men...
2007-06-24 16:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋