i went in court and the judge said show me prove thats you paid her monthly support, i did not have any!! so now i am in the hole for 29,000 $ i also found out my passport is on hold!!! thats realy suck!!!
2007-06-24 08:59:20 · 4 answers · asked by erik 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
How did you withdraw the money to pay her? If you withdrew it from an ATM and it was the same amount each time, there is record of that. If you can prove that you didn't have any other bills in this amount, etc, this may work.
I would suggest getting yourself a GOOD lawyer, and sitting down and talking this out with them. If you have a friend or relative who practices law talk with them. The lawyer may be able to prove you right or get you a good settlement that would not be so much cash.
I'm really sorry that this woman is hurting you like this, but don't let your rage blind you. I'm sure it will be a challenge, but you can get this worked out!
The lawyer may also be able to bring in some witnesses like your kids or other people who may have known of the arrangement. They could also check her bank records as to when she may have deposited large amounts of cash.
2007-06-24 09:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You paid cash? Man, you gotta pay by check or credit card! There are some mistakes that you can't recover from, and this may be one of them.
2007-06-24 09:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by jdkilp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lesson learned - always get a receipt and trust no one.
2007-06-24 09:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by Be me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got screwes one last time by her......was it as good for you as it was for her
2007-06-24 09:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋