Dead pregnant lady in Ohio...Jezebel who brought it on herself, or innocent victim?

Question

she was murdered no doubt, but if she had not of been having an affair with a man who she knew was married, would she still be alive today?...what do your ethics say?

i'm not blaming the victim, although i do think her behavior led to her death

Jezebel is a literary reference not a judgement...but it WAS meant to be provocative

Answer 1

I just have to ask you a question in return - WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK BRINGS MURDER UPON THEMSELVES ??? For you to even say "Jezebel who brought it on herself" says to me that the mentality of "well she was dresses in a short skirt and skimpy top so she must have wanted to be raped"
Sorry - there are just somethings that no matter what a person has done they don't deserved and I would have to say being murdered is definitely one of them..

Sorry - the way the question was worded really just set off a nerve ...

Answer 2

Ethics??? My ethics say that YOUR ethics are in question if you truly believe that a 9 months pregnant woman could "bring her murder on herself" in any way, shape, or form. There is no doubt this lady was an innocent victim. Does every person having an affair with someone who is married "deserve" to be murdered? And, according to CNN, the presumed father of the baby claims he is separated from his wife and she knew about the relationship. I believe the only way she might still be alive is if she had not gotten pregnant. If this man is capable of murdering a pregnant woman, who is most likely carrying his child, he would undoubtedly be capable of murdering another person, at some other time or place. But most importantly, TWO people were murdered, a mother and her unborn baby. There is never, ever ANY excuse for murdering a pregnant woman, no matter what the circumstances. And to think that the accused is a police officer, sworn to "protect and serve", is chilling, as well as disheartening.

Answer 3

Of course she didn't bring it on herself. You are an idiot. No one is innocent in this life but she didn't ask to be murdered by having an affair with a married man.

Answer 4

My ethics say to ask such a question is off base. She was murdered. Period. No one deserves to be murdered. Did she make bad choices. Perhaps. I don't know the whole story. I don't really want to know.

She certainly did not deserve to die.

Answer 5

i usually agree with your posts,but blaming the victim is wrong. what she did was stupid,not criminal. what cutts and his other girlfriend did was heinous.

edit. let's look at the case in Illinois. according to your reasoning the wife and kids were to blame or maybe just the wife. their bad choice for a husband and father resulted in their death. you never know when or if someone will kill you. most choices in life you make can potentially result in your death. including driving to work or the store

Answer 6

My ethics say that if someone says that she had it coming to her just because she slept with someone who she knew was married, that the person who said that is an a**hole.

Besides, she's not the one who broke her wedding vows, he did.

Answer 7

Not her fault ,but why would one would kill a pregnant woman and a mother?this is a lot like that creep in Francisco who killed Lacey.

Answer 8

Regardless of the affair no one deserves to be murdered. It is up to God to judge her not us.

Answer 9

She was in love with him and love blinds us. She might have still been alive but facts are facts. He murdered her ( supposedly) and now we must deal with the facts at hand..not what ifs or maybes. He commited a crime and now must pay the consequences..she did not violate any laws.

Answer 10

Nobody brings that kind of suffering upon themselves.