Sex ! .. Now that i've got attention ill like 2 ask what is so great about sex, well i know it a form of creating a new life, and expressing your love for someone. But i mean why do people go crazy for it unessecary? But im a kid, and still a virgin. And guys that i know my age, brag to there mates about the people that they have slept with. But why, is their such a need for telling people who you have slept with, and it makes u more cool for doing it :S ??
2007-06-24 08:36:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Think of it this way. A pig will have sex to procreate, there is no emotion in the act. A human has the capacity to make love, not just to procreate but to share the beauty and pleasure of giving and receiving that pleasure. Some humans can be pigs. They are the ones who are not mature enough to be able to share their emotions. Bragging about 'sex' is a sure sign of either 1) a liar or 2) a pig.
You see, some people think that bragging about stuff makes them sound important. They do not see that by doing so most others only pity them for being so insecure. We might smile and nod, but inside we are thinking 'poor sod, must suck to be them.' Those who listen to the braggarts are just as insecure and naturally must try to 'one up' them. A vicious cycle, but it serves a purpose. It allows those people who understand and are mature enough, to reap the benefits of finding someone to SHARE the wonder of 'making love.'
As you grow older and begin to find your own interest growing, remember those who act so childishly and stay away from them. Treat them as a life lesson on how NOT to act, and you will find yourself attracting and being attracted to, the ones who are willing to make you happy. Hope this very brief lesson helps, and congratulations for being mature enough already to see the silliness.
2007-06-24 09:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
Sex is something that if done with the right person can be a wonderful experience. The feelings that are expressed, can be unbelieveable, not to mention climax and how great it feels. But it's important that it be with a person who you really care for inorder to get the full experience. Sex with anyone else is just about climax and barely worth it. So find the right someone.
But for a lot of guys sex is a kind of coming of age ritual, they feel like they are finally a man because they have slept with someone. But just finally being a man isn't enough they have to be better than the other guys so they brag about it. Then just having done it with one isn't enough so they want to do it more and more. Sex for them is just about the climax
Put simply sex is kinda like a kiss, if you kiss your grandmother you aren't going to feel that butterfly, oh my gosh feeling, but if you have it with the right person than Bang! You may still enjoy kissing your grandmother (completely non-sexually of course), but not in the same way you would with someone you really care about.
2007-06-24 16:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by kate 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
If you hear guy's anywhare between the age's of 13-19 talking about who they've slept with it's because there just immature.
Most people think it's cool because they were told not to. kinda like when your mom say's don't wear so much makeup (which make's you put even more on)...
get it?
2007-06-27 08:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by softballchick82 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys lie about having sex becuase they think it'll make them fit in or seem cool. But really it just shoes immaturety. Never sleep with a guy who doesnt respect you enough to not tell all his buddies about sleeping with you. You will understand sex more when you find someone you actually love and actually do it. But REMEMBER NO GLOVE NO LOVE !
2007-06-27 04:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by Linda 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well for one thing, most of those guys are lying, they are jus saying that to sound cool (queers). Anyways, I dont really know myself, i mean during the teen years their hormones are raging and they just want some ass. simple. but i suppose becuase they are sex addicts and because it feels good.
Like in the movies, lots of teens have never had sex, but things on TV and Movies make sex seem SOOO good
2007-06-25 11:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by SNAKAGE 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Confront the bragers they may not of had sex themselves.They maybe just telling that they have and haven't,because they don't want their freinds to know that they haven't.So don't be so discrougered about not having.It's no big deal, not everyone has and I don't think they would want to talk about what they haven't,but say that they did when they didn't.
2007-06-24 08:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Blackbird13 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
people just think it's cool to do it and it makees them feel better about themselves i see where you are coming from and i ask the same question to my self sometimes too and to some people it feels good but w/e you don't have to worry about that until your older and you'll definatly understand
2007-06-27 09:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by jugw 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
immaturaty a real guy will never kiss and tell....but sex is awesome because theres a bonding on a whole nother with with you and your partner that is a realtionshipm wise not one night stand plus it just feels good orgasms are soo intese and the make you relax ^_^
2007-06-27 03:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand it either.
I think its a special thing created for a couple very much in love to connect and procreate.
2007-06-27 16:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by fishcan'tseewater 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
people go crazy over sex because it feels good and it can draw you closer to your mate
2007-06-24 17:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by for shizl 2 · 10⤊ 1⤋