menopause and pregnancy?

Question

Ok My aunty is 44 and want to try for her first baby with her new hubby.
She had not had a period for a yr back in 2005 and then had a normal period in 2006 for about a year. She and her Hubby have been trying for a year not useing no birth control.
Now she says she misses some and they last when they come for 2 to 3 days.

She has medical problems she is diabetic and is on metformin for that.
Also she is on other medication and is classed as disabled i am unsure why but she has not worked for over 8 yrs now.
She is over weight size 24 clothes and smokes when she is stressed and she does suffer from depression.
what are the chances of her having a baby and is it the start of menopause????

Can you fall pregnant with menopause???

Answer 1

First off that woman has so many things going on in her life she has no business getting pregnant.

She's so old that she has greater then 1/100 chance to have a child with genetic abnormalities. In addition, diabetes can cause maternal or fetal problems. She smokes, which can cause miscarriage and low birth rate- she's fat which also adds to her risk of miscarriage and not conceiving.

If I were you I would kidnap the man and give him a vasectomy while he was unconcious.

Thank GOD she's going through menopause and is likely not going to conceive. Do what you can to talk this woman out of ruining a child's life.

Answer 2

It sounds like her health and weight are a big factor. being overweight itself can cause her to miss periods and not ovulate. the only way help she could possibly get is by talking to a doctor about taking medication to help her start her period and to help produce eggs. if none of this works then she may have to get someone to donate eggs and then use IVF. she may still be able to carry a child, depending on how bad her diabetes is, but she should talk to a fertility specialist before it gets too late. time is not on her side.

Answer 3

it sounds like the deck is stacked against her. If she is serious about having a baby she neeeds to quit smoking an lose at least 50 lbs. Maybe she should becmoe a foster parent instead, she may not be able to have a baby and hger health may keep her form adopting.