why does my boyfriend want me to moan while we're having sex? what effect does it have on him or why does he want me to moan while we're having sex?
2007-06-24 07:29:26 · 8 answers · asked by luckyybracelet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Moan if you want, or don't. Sounds like he's looking for feedback to make himself sure that he's pleasing you. If moaning isn't your thing, let him know somehow that whatever he's doing is making you feel good. By the same token, if he needs to do something different, tell him. I'll lay this out for you; the worst thing a guy fears is being in bed with a woman that just lays there. He doesn't know is he's not doing the right thing, or if she's just a "fish f---". If you want sex to be great, give some feedback somehow. It's true, most guys just want to get laid, but it's also true that he gets the most satisfaction by seeing you satisfied.
Don't fake it, because he'll just keep doing it in way that isn't best for you. Moaning is just one way he can tell if you're enjoying it. And ain't that what it's all about anyway?
2007-06-24 07:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by yankeefitness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men want their girlfriends to moan or make sounds because it makes them feel as though they are doing a good job, they think that if you are moaning that you are enjoying it....but what I dont understand about them is they ask you to moan, when you moan on cue, how can that make them possibly feel good, because it is totally fake or acting. That has bothered me for years. What guys dont seem to understand is that we as women dont have to be moaning or screaming to be enjoying the sexual situation.
2007-06-24 07:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to MOAN so he can feel he's doing it right , hey but don't worry maybe it's not that you don't want to moan maybe he can't make you moan.
2007-06-24 07:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by lupit@ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually gotta eat my pillow so the neighbors don't hear me moan.....maybe he needs to find your sweet spots,so you don't need to fake it for him?
2007-06-24 07:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by BellaDonna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moaning means you LIKE what he is doing
you obviously Dont
2007-06-24 07:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
he wants u to moan because it makes him feel good about himself! duuhhh!
2007-06-24 07:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsecrets3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so he knows you like it . and moaning is sexy
2007-06-24 07:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know maybe to make it more better for him...maybe he thinks its more attractive
2007-06-24 07:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋